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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:07 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy Birthday!!! This site is truly a gift, as are the wonderful veteran members who keep "paying it forward" to the newer members.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
sinsof thefather ( member #29295) posted at 4:10 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
HAPPY 11th BIRTHDAY SI!
Thank you so much to Mangled Heart, Deeply Scared, and all of the kind hearted people, mods and members, that keep this site on line and running smoothly. 
...second star to the right and straight on till morning.
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 4:28 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy birthday SI 
I know I probably would have survived infidelity, but I never would have met so many wonderful people, and I will be forever in your debt for that
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 4:38 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy Birthday to SI and MH and DS!!!!
Thank you for this wonderful safe place of healing and friendship.
Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.
2oldforthis ( member #19825) posted at 4:41 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy Birthday SI, So grateful
He did not see what he had in me, what I saw in him I did not have!
Love kills slowly.
silverhopes ( member #32753) posted at 6:15 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy Birthday SI!!!
Aut viam inveniam aut faciam.
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 6:20 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Failure is success if we learn from it.
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 6:47 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy Birthday!!
Words cannot describe how grateful I am to have found this place.
Thank you, DS & MH, for everything!!!
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
selkiescot ( member #23777) posted at 6:52 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
HAppy Birthday SI. MY friends and sanity keepers!
The truth shall set you free or reveal the name of the OW!
ME 57
WH 64
DDAYs TOO MANY
daughter 27
You give me gifts! I don't want your gifts I want the truth. That's the greatest gift.
libertyrocks ( member #38924) posted at 6:56 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy birthday to you...happy birthday to you...happy birthday...dear, my savior! Happy birthday to you.
Love you!
Me-37 Ws-37
2 kids
Dday Nov 2012, TT for a year.
Reconciling for the third time in 4 years.
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 7:05 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
11...
I cannot fathom the hours and the number of words in 11 years of service to so many people.
WOW!! celebrate!
and as always, thanks DS and MH for the birth of such a wonderful safe place.
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
NewMom0220 ( member #39036) posted at 7:08 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Yay, Happy Birthday! I know most of us wish we didn't need this site, but we do and thank God you are here. It is an invaluable resource. Congrats on helping so many people.
Me: BS 37
Him: WS 37
20 month old DS
Married 5 years, together 8, DIVORCING!!! (taking forever)
DDay: 3/1/13 (4 Month PA while I was pregnant)
Sometimes all you have to do is forget what you feel and remember what you deserve.
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 7:16 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy Birthday SI,
This is such a great place and I have learned so much here. Even beyond infidelity understanding other issues and behaviors. MH &DS, thanks so much for starting this site and to everyone here who I have met either on-line or IRL. Thanks for all the good insight and friendship.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
3kids30years ( member #38879) posted at 7:47 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Ditto
Happy Birthday!!
Words cannot describe how grateful I am to have found this place.
Thank you, DS & MH, for everything!!!
A safe place to ask, learn and vent (just a little)
Much love and many thanks -
3k30y
BW - 52 on Dday
WH - 53 on Dday
DDay - 3/2/13 - 2:07pm 2+ year EA/PA
TT until 2016 - why do they do that?
Trust is earned, respect is given, & loyalty is demonstrated. Betrayal of any one is to loose all three.
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 8:29 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy Birthday SI!! 
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
Exit Wounds ( member #32811) posted at 8:30 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy Birthday SI!!!
We love you and we love coming here for help, love and healing...oh and the occasional 2X4 
of course! 
Exit WoundsH of 17 years got gf pregnant, left our kids 9 & 11 and we never saw him again. -His choice.
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 9:05 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
We love you and we love coming here for help
And here I thought you were going to say you loving coming to our house 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 9:08 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
It's hard to describe how much SI has meant to me and LD. We came on here as lost souls, desperate for any help we could find.
You provided that for us, and so much more.
Thank you for creating SI, and for all your love, support, and friendship along the way. Also, thank you for allowing me to be a part of the staff. It's an honor to be able to help fulfill the mission of SI.
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
cass ( member #24261) posted at 9:10 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy birthday SI from around the globe and across the miles.
DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 9:13 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
And here I thought you were going to say you loving coming to our house
I LOVE going to your house - and I love your award winning dogs! 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
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