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 click4it (original poster member #209) posted at 11:55 PM on Monday, June 24th, 2013

7 days without a cigarette!

I think the longest I went was 5 days when I had the flu about 6 years ago.

I have been eating vegetables and fruit every single day for the last 3 weeks. I am taking lunch to work when I used to buy every day.

again WHO am I?

What's next?

I don't recognize myself at the moment.

Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?

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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 11:59 PM on Monday, June 24th, 2013

The new and improved Clicky!!!

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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 click4it (original poster member #209) posted at 12:03 AM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

I better not honk any horns yet, but I wanted to just post my accomplishment and then if I make it to 30 days, I will honk a horn.

Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?

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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 12:04 AM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

Can Vrazz honk a horn? She's been begging to.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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 click4it (original poster member #209) posted at 12:08 AM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

Yes, let her honk away!!

Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 12:34 AM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

Go, Clicky, go!!!

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 1:45 AM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

Yay!

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 2:24 AM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

YAY! Not going so well over here. Keep JM in your thoughts/prayers. I know he can do this, but not if he keeps buying cigarettes.

Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.

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lost_in_toronto ( member #25395) posted at 4:28 AM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

So happy for you!

Me: BS/48
Him: WS/46
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 23 years.
Reconciled.

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 click4it (original poster member #209) posted at 6:49 PM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

thanks all! I'm feeling pretty blue today - PMS time and all, but I'm hanging in.

JM if I can do it SO CAN YOU! Has he tried the e-cig or got a patch yet?

Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?

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little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 6:59 PM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

Wow! 7 Days, you're right on your way to an improved you!!!

Failure is success if we learn from it.

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movingforward777 ( member #6850) posted at 5:21 AM on Wednesday, June 26th, 2013

Good for you!!! One day (sometimes on minute) at a time!!! Hang in there, you won't regret giving it up....HUGS

You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith

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 click4it (original poster member #209) posted at 5:59 AM on Wednesday, June 26th, 2013

I had a lighter and matches still hanging around in my purse and I finally took them out.

I never realized that the withdrawl would cause extreme tiredness. But maybe it was keeping me from sleeping good in the first place.

Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?

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sadtoo ( member #2027) posted at 2:14 PM on Wednesday, June 26th, 2013

Good for you, Click!!

When I quit, I carried a pack of smokes and a lighter for almost a year. It was psychological for me. If I didn't have them, I went into a panic. But as long as I had them with me, then I was choosing NOT to smoke them. Weird, I know. There were times, like on the fith day and the seventh day that I actually got out the pack and the lighter and thought about lighting up, but didn't. Now that pack and the lighter is in my junk drawer...almost 10 years later.

They say that once you're past 7 days, you are over the physical addiction. Now it's all psychological. So just don't do any of the things you associate with smoking. Like drink, talk on the phone, drive your car, etc.

I would get a phone call from a friend and say, "I can't talk! I'll start smoking! And hang up."

Everyone thought I was goofy. But hey, what ever it takes, right?

Great job!

*I survived Infidelity*

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HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 2:22 AM on Thursday, June 27th, 2013

He has used the patch and alternated with the gum. His biggest problem is work. Everyone smokes. Everyone takes smoke breaks during the down time. We are leaving Saturday for vacation and he'll be away from work for 9 days. So hopefully, he can get it licked then.

Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.

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 click4it (original poster member #209) posted at 6:17 AM on Thursday, June 27th, 2013

thanks sadtoo...yeah the triggers are the toughest. Its a plus that I had already tapered down quite a bit, so my triggers are few, but they are there. how long have you been smoke free?

HF - I had that same issue over the weekend, my friend came down for 5 days and she smokes and so did everyone else that came over. Me and her would always go out for our "smoke breaks" and I had to literally restrain myself from going. It was tough, but I did it. I hope your vacation will do the trick! Maybe he should start the cutting down trick and then gradually his body will crave the nicotine less.

Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?

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 click4it (original poster member #209) posted at 6:20 AM on Thursday, June 27th, 2013

I got a question for all of you who have quit...did you have extreme tiredness?? I am SO sleepy during the day. I am sleeping so-so at night, but not more or less than when I did smoke. I am eating veggies and fruits and cut down on my "bad" foods as well. I walk during the day. But the tiredness...wow. Wondering if that is part of the withdrawl?

Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?

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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 7:06 AM on Thursday, June 27th, 2013

I have no advice but wanted to say I think you're awesome! You go, girl.

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 7:16 AM on Thursday, June 27th, 2013

I did have extreme tiredness for the first few weeks. I had a lot of trouble sleeping which definitely contributed to it but nicotine is also a stimulant and even though it leaves the body quickly, it takes a few weeks for your brain to shut off those receptors.

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sadtoo ( member #2027) posted at 7:44 AM on Thursday, June 27th, 2013

It's been been 10 years since I've smoked.

I'll do an e-cig when I go out for drinks. But just the smell of a real cig makes me gag. ugh!

Yes! I remember being really tired too.

*I survived Infidelity*

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