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HeartInADustpan (original poster member #38341) posted at 11:55 PM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013
Sorry I haven't been around much. I just can't contribute in any positive way in my current mental state. I'm so up and down and all over the place, I don't even know who I am anymore.
I guess I just need hugs. 
Just call me Heart. :)
Reconciling
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything" ~Mark Twain
2married2quit ( member #36555) posted at 11:56 PM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013
(((((HUGS))))))
Just take it one day at a time.
BS - Me 47 WS - Her 45 ( she's a childhood sexual abuse survivor)
DDAY -#1- June 2012/ #2 -June 2015 / #3-August 2015
Married 25yrs. 2kids
She had 2 affairs with two different men.
Status: divorced.
1Faith ( member #38975) posted at 11:58 PM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013
You are not alone and we have all been there. Deep breaths and know we all care and wish you healthy healing. Xoxoxo
Sometimes my life feels like a test I didn't study for
sailorgirl ( member #38162) posted at 12:43 AM on Wednesday, June 26th, 2013
We are ready to listen any time!
How about if you think of three character traits you have that you are proud of? The core of you is still there, and infidelity can't damage that unless you let it.
Married 14 years, three amazing kids
H had 17 month EA/PA
D-day 1/5/13
Reconcilling
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 1:24 AM on Wednesday, June 26th, 2013
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
Missymomma ( member #36988) posted at 1:50 AM on Wednesday, June 26th, 2013
(((Heart))). So sorry, we are here for you!
DDay - 6/15/11
R started - 7/1/11
False Discl- 9/27/12
Real Discl - 2/12/13
Poly - 3/1/13 Pass!
Me - BS (46)
WH - 52 (SA, NA, WA)
Kids: 2 littles and 1 grown
The road to recovery is long and hard. Some days I am up for it and others not!
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 2:36 AM on Wednesday, June 26th, 2013
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
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