SurvivingInfidelity.com^®

STBX was finally deposed today. It was so hard keeping my laughs to myself, just listening to all his lies after lies.

Little does he or his lawyer know, we have proof to refute tons of that crap!!

Some funny parts? My lawyer's questions to the POS that he couldn't answer, such as, what grade are the kids going to into, what are their teacher's names, who is their pediatrician, who is their dentist... He couldn't answer a single damn one, lol.

He also admitted that I handle all their appointments, parent/teacher conferences, glasses, etc., and that he hasn't been to a single one.

He also admitted that I was a great mom!

He did get super snippy when handed mounds of texts and emails showing him disparaging me, my family, and involving the kids. My L asked if he had an anger problem, to which he replied, "No." And then when shoving one of the papers back at my L, he asked again if he had an anger problem, and STBX said, "Whatever."

Even the court reporter was giving me surprised looks!!

My very favorite part? After POS refused to let DS9 join us for my couple hours with DS6 for his birthday last night (saying DS9 was begging not to go), my L asked him, "Do you know how to encourage a good relationship between the kids and Butterfly?" POS stammered and asked him to repeat the question, which my L did, and STBX said, "I guess not."

LOLOLOLOL. I can't WAIT for court in 2 weeks!! I better not get overconfident, but this POS is hanging himself with his own rope. There's nothing like trying to figure out how he hits himself with the karma bus while driving it at the same time

What a dumb schmuck. But yay for you!!!!

He also admitted that I was a great mom!

I hope you never doubted that!

this POS is hanging himself with his own rope

That is the one constant with these idiots, and they always look oh so surprised when it happens!

I hope he felt like an idiot after that. He should be embarrassed!

How do you not know what grade your children are in?! That alone says so much about the level of involvement he has with his children.

Um...he doesn't know what grade the kids are in? Holy pathetic piece of shit.

Your lawyer was probably thinking, "Wow, love a deposition where I'm shooting fish in a barrel."

Um...he doesn't know what grade the kids are in? Holy pathetic piece of shit.

I know right??? Holy shit!!! I knew he was bad, I didn't know he was THAT bad!!!

My experience with post A divorce has left me with two certainties.

1-The wheels of justice grind slowly.

2-If you give a WS enough rope. They always hang themselves.

Good job and enjoy the show.

Um...he doesn't know what grade the kids are in? Holy pathetic piece of shit.

^^THIS! I will never ever cease to be amazed at how uninvolved these sacks of shits can be in their own children's lives. Never.

Don't you just love it when they show their arse? Enjoy the show BG!!

The sad clown was sitting in a room of 3 women and one man (my L) looking like the biggest pissweak scumbag on the planet. My L said "OMG - did you see how red his ears were??". Yeah - he no likey when he is exposed for the coward scumbag that he is.

It made having to see his fugly mug almost worth it.

Squirm little parasite - squirm!

During the divorce we were given questionaires about the kids from the GAL. Dipshit actually had the nerve to bring it to me and ask me to fill his out lmao.

The only thing he had filled out was the kids names and even that he misspelled.

yep I sat through OW and WH deps and listened to lies while holding tons of evidence. Why in the world do they continue to lie?

Someone told me it doesn't matter how many lies he tells until he does it under oath.

Perhaps that's why I'm glad he's stuck to his bullshit until now

He even denied ever sticking their heads in the toilet, which the dumb fuck admitted to doing to all the children to me in text..

I married a real idiot y'all. I was never happy about until now.. Hee hee

Oh, and he denied having a pension plan too, which his job already sent proof of

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 9:29 AM, July 24th (Wednesday)]

We didn't do depositions. I wonder why? That's odd, everyone here talks about depositions and answering the other party's discovery questions. That didn't happen in my case.

What did happen, though, was STBX lying right there on the witness stand in front of the judge during our trial as well as lying on his paperwork/budget submitted to the court to justify why he shouldn't have to pay me much SS/CS. He also lied to the parenting evaluator. Apparently that didn't matter. Even though I had lots of documentation & reports to prove his lies, nothing at all has ever come of his lies, and my L tells me nothing will.

Just warning you...

I was under the impression that depositions were sworn testimony?

Um yeah, depositions *are* sworn testimony. Which means if your STBX tries to change what he said in his depo later, he's going to have even more problems. Heh.

Yes, it's sworn testimony.

One thing he admitted to was lowering his hours to be able to watch the children, which is a big no-no. No wonder the POS is on his fourth financial affidavit. He's not allowed to do that..

He even lied about that before anyway, saying he didn't work 2 of the 3 days a week he had them, when really it was slut-bag watching them, which the time stamps from his employer will prove..

He likes to constantly text me how abusive and violent I am, lol, and he denied me being any of that in the deposition.. Hey, look, he finally told the truth on something!

Since DCF only found "inappropriateness," I don't think there's any way he will not be allowed any custody, but he's proven time and again that he's a totally irresponsible parent, completely incapable of taking care of the medical, dental, schooling, counseling, anything. My L and I are mostly fighting for some type of EOW schedule instead of 50/50, and I think we have tons of enough evidence to prove that's all he should have.. I couldn't even list it all here for fear of boring you all..

Oh, and ignoring MOW isn't working. After our text war a couple days ago, now she's taking to bashing me for the last couple days, I would guess about 100 texts so far, which I have completely ignored. Her head is so far up her ass, it's ridiculous.. Like I'm really jealous bitch. Like you're so great and that's why he left me for you. I LEFT HIM DUMBASS. HE DIDN'T "CHOOSE" YOU. YOU ARE EATING MY LEFTOVERS!!!