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Ladies, do you shave your arms?

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DriveMeCrazy ( new member #39767) posted at 5:57 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013

Okay first let me tell all yall "i aint got no hair" ladies...i am feeling a little hater-ish towards you at the moment

jk!

I do shave arms, legs, pits, etc. I am one hairy chic and could also braid my arm hair if I let it flow, I mean grow. It would waive in the wind, and I absolutely hate it. I have also waxed before but hate that pain, so shave it is and bye bye arm mullet.

I am the BS, his LTA lasted almost 5 years. Ended immediately on dday. In reconciliation.

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DriveMeCrazy ( new member #39767) posted at 5:59 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013

Just thought I would add that at least my thick eyebrows are now in...

I am the BS, his LTA lasted almost 5 years. Ended immediately on dday. In reconciliation.

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lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 2:36 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2013

I have very little body hair, so I rarely need to shave anything (legs included).

My arms are never on that list.

Ditto Gaby.

Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks

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Whalers11 ( member #27544) posted at 11:01 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2013

I am kind of shocked at how many people do this. I've only known one girl to admit to doing it - it was a friend from when I was a teenager.

I am Italian with dark hair - and I am far from a girly girl. So legs and underarms are enough work for me. You won't see me do much more grooming than that.

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GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 11:03 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2013

Okay first let me tell all yall "i aint got no hair" ladies...i am feeling a little hater-ish towards you at the moment

LOL sorry, DriveMeCrazy! Luck of the draw, I guess!

Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.

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little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 11:04 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2013

I've never even considered shaving my arms. I shave my under arms though. And my legs.

Failure is success if we learn from it.

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ExposedNiblet ( member #30803) posted at 5:04 AM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013

Ugh, this is a sore-spot for me. I've always been hairy - always. Didn't feel self-conscious about it till 7th grade gym class when it was brought to my attention - very loudly, very publicly - by some mean (hairless) girls who thought it would be fun to call everyone's attention to it during the co-ed dance segment. I will never forget how ugly that laughter was. I was called woolly mammoth, Chewbacca, and Cro-Magnon man ( because of the moustache). God, it hurt - a lot.

Teenage girls can be so extremely cruel.

Jolene (the cream bleach) became a weekly ritual for me, and as soon as I could afford Nair on a monthly basis, I bought it just for my arms.

When I got older, I did the home waxing thing.

A few years back, I bought myself an epilator and I use it religiously to this day. It was expensive, but it was worth every penny.

You hairless ones - consider yourselves very lucky. I so envy you.

Divorced and happy.

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MrsDoubtfire ( member #24786) posted at 2:09 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013

I'm blonde and have blonde arm hair but it doesn't bother me. But if it did I would epilate it away not shave it. In the long run its less hassle as they don't grow back as fast as with shaving but you gotta get past that initial epilation as it's a bit OUCH!

BS(Me) FWH(Him) DDay 05.09
A went underground. True R 02.10
I won't let another woman reap the benefit of enjoying the man my H has now become†

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Want2help ( member #20547) posted at 8:19 AM on Sunday, July 28th, 2013

I did, once. When I was 12. I am very fair skinned, and have fine, fair hair that covers 99.9% of my body. In the sun it just looks like I have an ethereal glow.

When I shaved my arms, my shoulders and the back of my hands still had that fuzz, so it just looked silly to me (I'm sure no one else even noticed). It didn't grow back any darker, but I can totally see what the poster said about "blunt ends".

For what it's worth, I also shaved my stomach, and tried to get the small of my back (it was the early '90s and belly shirts were all the rage). I didn't stop at the arms.

FBS/WS- me.
F(serial)WS/BS- him.

Madhatters. More Ddays than birthdays, at this point. His OC, my OC...

UPDATE: Divorcing after almost 20 years.

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solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 2:16 AM on Monday, July 29th, 2013

It's never crossed my mind. I'm fair-haired (though a fake brunette at the moment), and have little body hair, anyway.

An all-girls' school made me lazy even about shaving legs. Luckily, I can go weeks without really needing to. Not because I'm okay with hairiness--but because I've never suffered it. (We shan't discuss hormonal chin hairs; those are dispatched daily.)

But if I were a kept woman, I' d wax everything, just because I love being waxed. It gives me a nice dose of endorphins---without the angst of figuring out where to put the tattoo or what it should be. (Another process I love.)

BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams

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sad12008 ( member #18179) posted at 2:24 AM on Monday, July 29th, 2013

Dear Lord, NO! This hairless craze isn't my thing. The older you get the more unwanted stray hairs start cropping up...and trust me when I say keeping track of what needs shaving, plucking, and trimming is like stamping out grass fires as it is.

You can't fill a cup with no bottom.

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