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CheaterMagnet (original poster member #33581) posted at 3:19 AM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
NOT surprised. Disappointed yes.
We had had a really productive talk where I felt like we actually heard each other for the first time in a long time. So, I started entertaining a sliver of hope again. MISTAKE!!!
I know people. I really, really do. I am doing the same thing we all do. I'm trying to hang on to that one sliver of hope that our asshats will change.
Not going to happen. I need to detach. I need NC. I am going to have to tell my DD that we just can't be friends yet. I need time to process this.
It stops when I say it stops. I need to say it stops.
NC NC NC NC NC NC NC
If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:23 AM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 3:53 AM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
It seems like every time we hung our hopes on the thinnest of slivers, they end up burying it in our backs like a shard of broken glass... 
I'm sorry. Hang in there.
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
Gr8Lady ( member #36307) posted at 4:03 AM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
Ahh. I too we'll understand as I too am the recipient of "the blame game"
It has always been my fault....
Disgusting on many levels, but hear you.
Stay strong! You are so worth it!
BS: Me (70yo)FWH: HIM (72 yo)) serial infidelities over past 35 years
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2013
friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over a
year a year. Now his health is declining,
among the lack of communication.
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