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When in doubt,.......

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Kalleigh ( member #1214) posted at 7:49 PM on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013

Punt

I love my husband and kids, but there is something missing, LIKE MAYBE A LIFE!!!!!!!

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heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 10:24 PM on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013

don't hit send

FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

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TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 4:38 PM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013

^^^ good advice ^^^

"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

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Brandon808 ( member #35619) posted at 5:20 PM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013

...about major life decisions ask yourself is it what you want to do or what you think you should do?

p.s. I hope it goes without saying that this does not apply to promises, contracts or vows. You kind of already made the decision in that case.

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atsenaotie ( member #27650) posted at 5:26 PM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013

When in doubt,.....

do as the doubters do, or does that only apply to Rome?

LTA FBS
dday 10.5.09
Divorced

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Lucky2HaveMe ( member #13333) posted at 5:27 PM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013

Spit it out!

Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

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purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 11:03 PM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013

Order out (I'm a food sniffer... too many bad experiences with left overs!)

Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

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Snapdragon ( member #4286) posted at 2:25 PM on Friday, August 30th, 2013

When in doubt

I whip it out

I got me a rock 'n' roll band

It's a free-for-all

~Ted Nugent - Free For All

Divorced - recovered and hoping to help.

"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 7:04 PM on Friday, August 30th, 2013

Keep your mouth shut.

ok it doesn't rhyme, but it's taken me nearly 43 years to learn this one.

Snapdragon:

Love the Nugent reference btw

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 5:04 AM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013

Kick it out

The 7-8yo coach of my DD's soccer team used to say this to the girls while trying to teach them strategy

K

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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Must Survive ( member #34533) posted at 5:17 AM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013

Smile

Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorced-Let my new beginning start

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen

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alphakitte ( member #33438) posted at 5:40 AM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013

don't

------ Some people are emotional tadpoles. Even if they mature they are just a warty toad. Catt

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 5:55 AM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013

Turn This Mutha Out

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1q2TA2zPtac

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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 7:42 AM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013

...throw it out.

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

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wannabenormal ( member #19772) posted at 9:10 AM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013

When in doubt, make sure whatever you do can't be traced.



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Laura28 ( member #28997) posted at 11:34 AM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013

stay silent

Married 42yrs Me BW 68Yrs Him F?WH 70yrs OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted. Dday May 28 2010. OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years). OW2 2002(8yrs PA). OW3 2009(1Yr PA). Others?? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck 'em"

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Laura28 ( member #28997) posted at 11:36 AM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013

throw him out

Well at least it rhymes!

Married 42yrs Me BW 68Yrs Him F?WH 70yrs OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted. Dday May 28 2010. OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years). OW2 2002(8yrs PA). OW3 2009(1Yr PA). Others?? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck 'em"

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Laura28 ( member #28997) posted at 11:37 AM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013

eat chocolate

(It doesn't rhyme but always helps me think)

Married 42yrs Me BW 68Yrs Him F?WH 70yrs OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted. Dday May 28 2010. OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years). OW2 2002(8yrs PA). OW3 2009(1Yr PA). Others?? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck 'em"

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