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poopylala (original poster member #30119) posted at 7:34 PM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
I realized I can't remember all the dates anymore. I questioned which year D-day happened until somehow, I remembered the date.
I couldn't remember the names of the OPs other than first names.
I am completely okay with this.
While I will never forget what has happened, I am really happy with where we are at. We've had a few ups and down but we have worked through them together.
I'm just happy with where I am in life 
"To err is human;To forgive,divine"
<3 DS always
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 8:04 PM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
Your post made me smile. I'm glad to hear your healing and R are going well. 
unfound ( member #12802) posted at 8:08 PM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
ka-mai
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Kids on the playground can be so cruel. “Get off the swings you’re like 50, and stop talking about Soundgarden, we don't even know what that is."
Yakamishi ( member #38230) posted at 8:27 PM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
Curiouse, when was your D day?
Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life
poopylala (original poster member #30119) posted at 8:35 PM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
Wow, I was wrong about the date! I thought it was Nov 7, 2011 but it was Nov 7, 2010!
Goes to show that I still didn't remember LOL oops
"To err is human;To forgive,divine"
<3 DS always
EmotionalFool ( member #37362) posted at 10:15 PM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
OMG!!! Thats so great!!! Thanks for such a wonderful update..
WW: 28 (ME)
BH: 28 (SI profile: CrappyLife)
D-Day- 15/10/12
ccw82 ( member #40133) posted at 11:30 PM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
That is wonderful that you are starting to forget the details! I hope to someday be in your shoes. :)
Me (BW): 39
WXH (1DumbHusband): 43
We were married for over 11 years; now divorced.
BIG D-Day: June 17th, 2013
Too many freaking TTs that cost us our marriage in the end.
"Love isn't a feeling, it's a choice."
Clarrissa ( member #21886) posted at 12:23 AM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
Congrats on the memory problems. 
Just goes to show that forgetting can sometimes be a *good* thing.
BH Cee64D - 50
FWW (me) - 51
All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 4:10 AM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
Hey, poopy, great to hear from you! Happy that things are going well for you. Very cool you can't remember the dates.
I still find myself saying "oh, poopylala" when I need to swear but don't want to. (around grandson) You are in my thoughts a lot. 
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
Tinker01 ( new member #40312) posted at 5:31 AM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
Thank you!! I really needed to hear that today!!! CONGRATS..
Me 40
Him 5
Dday June 20/23 2013
poopylala (original poster member #30119) posted at 5:45 AM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
Oh Sister, you always make me smile! I'm sorry I haven't been on here in forever! I have been so busy with life which is both good and bad I suppose.
I know not everyone heals at the same rate but I really wish everyone had my "memory problem" because it really is freeing. (((Hugs))) to you all!
"To err is human;To forgive,divine"
<3 DS always
HardenMyHeart ( member #15902) posted at 7:16 AM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
I couldn't remember the names of the OPs other than first names.
I'm so happy for you. I remember the first time I forgot OM's last name. Brought a smile to my face.
Me: BH, Her: WW, Married 40 years, Reconciled
soconfusednow ( member #40078) posted at 1:18 PM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
I'm happy for you. I hope to be there someday, but first I have to be convinced my WH is being faithful to me.
He says it's over with OW. I'm having doubts about that, but can't find any proof.
D-Day January 2013
prior EA in the 90's
me 50's WH 50's
NC-several, last broken NC 7/2013 (?)
Married 30+ years, 2 kids
Want to believe it's over, but is it really? Will I ever trust again?
tsol25 ( member #29461) posted at 3:37 PM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
Congrats on the memory problems.
congrats. Today would be my 3 year anti but I think I'm OK with that. I noticed a few days ago it was coming up but I think it was this post that connected it today. I haven't been dwelling on things like I did last year. I'm happy that things have settled down for both of us
me - tsol, that's all for now
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