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Reconciliation :
a moment to hold on to

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 SorrowBhindSmile (original poster member #38139) posted at 2:46 PM on Monday, September 2nd, 2013

Last night, my WH and i were laying in bed snuggling. Our 3 week old granddaughter was sleeping peacefully on WH chest.

WH started crying and said "Thank You" and i said "for what" He said "for agreeing to commit to reconciling....because if you hadn't i wouldn't be here for moments like these"

I'm going to keep that one in my back pocket for those days when i am struggling and need hope to hold onto.

For anyone out there struggling....find a moment, write it down, carry it with you, keep it handy, so you can remind yourself, on the rough days, there is hope. Day by day. Hugs to all of you!

Me: BW
Him: WH
OW: My former "dear friend"/neighbor
Married 20+
Kids: 3
D-Day 12/2012
Committed to R 7/8/2013
"Believe in yourself and all that you are. Know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle"

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 2:54 PM on Monday, September 2nd, 2013

Beautiful!

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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catlover50 ( member #37154) posted at 3:14 PM on Monday, September 2nd, 2013

That's awesome!

Dday -9/23/2012
Reconciled

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brkn_heartd ( member #30396) posted at 5:15 PM on Monday, September 2nd, 2013

That is powerful!

Me-57 BS
Him 65-WS
Married 38 yrs, together 40
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

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sinsof thefather ( member #29295) posted at 7:30 PM on Monday, September 2nd, 2013

Beautiful!

This ^

...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

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struggling3 ( member #34671) posted at 7:52 PM on Monday, September 2nd, 2013

Very powerful moments when you see that true remorse. Hold it close. Love the idea of trying to remember to hold onto the good for the bad moments. Inspiring.

Me - BS 58
H - WS 60/very remorseful and supportive

discovered 4 month long EA
R - slow and steady but very optimistic

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