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jb3199 ( member #27673) posted at 1:20 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2013
If you have to wait until Saturday to be alone to confront, then so be it. You already know enough. You know she has and is continually betraying you.
But when you do confront, which I am sure that you have tried to play out every scenario in your mind, just remember---accept nothing less than what your gut is telling you. PERIOD. Actual proof at this point means jack squat in my opinion. You know what she has done, and you know what you are expecting to hear---which is not going to settle well with you. But that doesn't mean that you don't deserve the truth...as shitty as it may be.
Don't look for that glimmer of hope that things may not be as bad as they seem. Hope is not your friend during confrontation--facts and truth are. And the better that you are prepared to handle the truth...and mete out consequences if not...then the faster you are on your road to personal healing---with or without your wife.
This is not your fault.
You did nothing to deserve this.
You deserve the truth.
Repeat those lines as much as necessary to be certain that you understand this.
Then confront. Good luck.
BH-50s
WW-50s
2 boys
Married over 30yrs.
All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary PuckettD-Day(s): EnoughAccepting that I can/may end this marriage 7/2/14
traildad ( member #35258) posted at 3:04 AM on Sunday, September 15th, 2013
I know you are probably in the heat of confrontation right now. Just wanted to send you strength brother.
Me BH - 33
3 beautiful young children
DDay 12/13/11
Divorced.
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