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 pointmagnet (original poster member #16565) posted at 3:04 AM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

Hey we got a settlement today and while I think it is brutally unfair to me, at least it is over!

Hahahahaha!

That piece of shit will never control me again!

(I just have to work for another 12 years) no big deal.

She forgets I am a distance runner. This is nothing for me!

Hahahaha!!!!

Me (BS): 55
Her (WW): 53
Married: Not any more
Children: Three of them
D-Day: 10/07/07; 12/15/12
Status: Trying to move on

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Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 3:05 AM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!

You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~

posts: 9059   ·   registered: Apr. 9th, 2013   ·   location: Land of Indifference
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Heal&Deal ( member #30910) posted at 3:09 AM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

Congrats on the settlement and surviving! The judgements/agreements often seem unfair, especially to the BHs. The system is definitely biased to the female partners.

Cheers to your new beginning!

posts: 936   ·   registered: Jan. 20th, 2011   ·   location: USA
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 pointmagnet (original poster member #16565) posted at 3:31 AM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

Seriously my distance running mentality will serve me well over the next years. My salary will be reduced to what it was 7 years ago but so what? Now everyone who lives with me has a job. They all help out. We are in it for the long term.

But the ww will just have random boyfriends that are simply looking for her money now. No real relationships. Just someone looking to screw an old woman to get a couple of bucks. I pity her.

Me (BS): 55
Her (WW): 53
Married: Not any more
Children: Three of them
D-Day: 10/07/07; 12/15/12
Status: Trying to move on

posts: 480   ·   registered: Oct. 10th, 2007   ·   location: USA
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SBB ( member #35229) posted at 11:24 PM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

Oh boy do I know the feeling. He got his pound of flesh for sure but it was well worth it for my freedom.

That piece of shit will never control me again!

Amen, brother. Amen.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

posts: 6062   ·   registered: Apr. 4th, 2012   ·   location: Australia
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