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 tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 9:17 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013

Gonna---I don't know how he meant reconcile. I think I snorted when I got to the part about 'Teslet's little sister.'

He's delusional if he thinks Teslet and OC are going to relate to each other as full siblings.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 9:19 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013

Yeah, I thought it was long for a text. I thought there was no way StripperWhore would let him text you for that long, so he must have been in the bathroom and claiming diarrhea

I get the bullying too when discussing legal matters. If he was so sure of himself, he wouldn't be texting and begging and threatening you. What a dick.. FTG..

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5454real ( member #37455) posted at 10:25 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013

Let me start by saying that I admire the strength you have shown through this ordeal I have read many, many of your posts and been amazed at the strength you have shown.

However, this concerns me...

He's delusional if he thinks Teslet and OC are going to relate to each other as full siblings.

How do you see their relationship?

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DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
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― Sophocle

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SeanFLA ( member #32380) posted at 10:29 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013

Wow if I had to count the amount "I's" in there. Surprised everything didn't contain a "....but..."

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WW 52
1 son 20 yrs old
Married 18 yrs, together 21 yrs

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have." ~ Bob Marley

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MyReturn2Me ( member #34352) posted at 10:33 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013

They must all use the same writer

::::crickets:::: on his sociopathetic ass!

Me: BS 51 and Freaking AWESOME!
Him: Who the fuck cares........

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 tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 11:35 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013

5454real -- Teslet only sees OC every other weekend. He sees her as often as he sees his cousins...so at best, I think he'll see her as a glorified cousin. They won't have any traditions in common, they will have very few values in common...ex-shat has no core sense of self, he has no familial traditions of his own, he has no sense of family history...OC will get all of that from stripper whore.

That's why I think it unlikely that Teslet will relate to her as if she were a full blooded sibling that was raised by me.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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sammie ( member #7785) posted at 5:27 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

He is DELUSIONAL! UTTERLY DELUSIONAL!!!!

And yes, he DOES somehow hope and believe that you are going to drop everything and allow him to return with little T's *sister* and that you will raise them together!

HE IS COMPLETELY MAD!!!

However, I do think maybe you could send him a "please return Mosely at your earliest possible convenience" txt...

Hugs hon. So sorry you are dealing with this unmitigated fucking CODSWALLOP!

If someone loves you, it should feel like they love you.
Never give more of yourself than you are getting back.

"The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong at the broken places." ~Ernest Hemingway

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SBB ( member #35229) posted at 10:20 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

However, I do think maybe you could send him a "please return Mosely at your earliest possible convenience" txt...

I'd wait him out.

Otherwise you're letting him know he still has that button to push. He KNOWS you want Mosely back. He WANTS you to ask so he can torment you with it. Wait it out. I reckon he'll offer as a strategic move.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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 tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 12:34 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

I would love to offer him a reduced amount to pay me back if he were to return Mosley...but I'll save that if we end up in front of a judge. Who knows, being put on the spot in a court and looking stupid may just get me my pup back.

He won't give that dog back to me otherwise. He knows that Mosley is the one thing he has that I want.

FTG.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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Snapdragon ( member #4286) posted at 4:04 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

If there is a contagious virus in his house, do you really want him having dinner with Teslet on Monday? Seems he might have it, too, and spread it. I think I wait it out for that whole household!

Divorced - recovered and hoping to help.

"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink

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