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Wedding rings anyone?

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 katola1 (original poster member #26544) posted at 5:11 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013

WS went on a three day trip with her friends. Sent me a picture she took with one of them. I zoomed into her left hand. She wasn't wearing her wedding rings?? Oops.

D-Day Beginnig Dec 09
BH

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Tred ( member #34086) posted at 5:13 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013

That's a bit awkward.

Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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Simple ( member #18814) posted at 6:57 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013

My fWH lost his first wedding ring and found it months later. What did he do? He gave it to one of his OW...

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True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

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Undefinabl3 ( member #36883) posted at 7:05 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013

I know it seems petty to many people, but not wearing a ring to me is huge. DH doesn't understand it because his previous wife never cared.

Have I walked out of the hosue not wearing my ring - yes. They were accidents totally. I hate putting on lotion with my rings on, so I take them all off. If i am in a hurry with the kids, i might forget it.

It could be a very innocent mistake - it could be totally on purpose...its so hard to tell which one is true.

Me: 35 MH
Him: 41 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.
1/10/18 - Again?!? Online EA's

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nomistakeaboutit ( member #36857) posted at 7:16 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013

Does she ever NOT wear her wedding rings at home?

Me: BH 65.........Her: WW 55
DD: 15.......DS: 12. (5 and 2 on DDay)
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12
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dameia ( member #36072) posted at 7:17 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013

I guess it depends on whether or not she usually wears it.

I wore mine very sporadically before DDay, as did WH. I do not wear it anymore, although WH wears his all the time now.

You know her best. Is it common for her to forget? Also what kind of trip is it? Is it outdoorsy, or something where she could conceivably be worried about losing the ring?

Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

Trust is like paper. Once it's crumpled it can never be perfect again.

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Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 10:22 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013

My ws doesn't wear his because of his job..safety reasons however, when he goes other places, he wears one that is apparently more important that he's had for years. I took mine off on the last DD. Not because I'm looking but because we don't have a M and it means nothing tto me anymore

BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

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SoOver96 ( member #40169) posted at 1:10 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013

I can't take mine off neither can WS because it's tattooed he has my name and date we got married and I've got his name and date

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