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Reconciliation :
3 years out- Forgot Dday anti_versary

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 screamingnside (original poster member #32831) posted at 4:56 PM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013

So the A has been on my mind a little more lately. I was just doing some painting and my mind started to wonder there. I was doing what I normally do and trying to talk myself out of thinking about it and I wondered why it was on my mind more lately, then I realized it was near the anti-versary of D-day, so I went to look at the date and it's already passed. This is the first year I've forgotten about it, kind of makes me feel like celebrating. Maybe in time I won't even remember the day at all.



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catlover50 ( member #37154) posted at 4:59 PM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013

Yay!! That's a good place to be.

Dday -9/23/2012
Reconciled

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HardenMyHeart ( member #15902) posted at 5:00 PM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013

Congrats on reaching this milestone.

Me: BH, Her: WW, Married 40 years, Reconciled

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cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 6:10 PM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013

That is what I aspire to. You are my hero. Still such a long way to go...

Congratulations, it is wonderful to hear that it is possible to get to where you are.

Thank you, really needed to read this today.

"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie

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meplusfour ( member #38958) posted at 7:02 PM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013

I'm so pleased for you. One day I hope to be where you are.

BW (me)42
WH 44
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
In R
"Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to the way they used to be."

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IslandGirl18 ( member #36781) posted at 12:41 AM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013

This is wonderful. Good for you!

me: BS
him: WS

D Day: July 27, 2012
Day of first suspicion: 6/7/11
DD#2: November 2, 2012

Divorced

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Simple ( member #18814) posted at 12:45 AM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013

GRATS!!!

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022

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