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DWBH (original poster member #35512) posted at 3:16 PM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013
... since DDay #1. The past 6 weeks of "A season" have been challenging, but nothing like last year at this time. Definite progress!
I've had constant triggers & reminders during almost any conversation we've had. Just cheap shots that zing through my mind. I've done my best not to let my expression convey my thoughts, much less my words. It's not necessary or constructive to share these things anymore, and that feels like progress to me.
So, I'm hoping that making it past this date will help in having these triggers diminish. We're leaving tomorrow morning for a long weekend away, just the two of us, to a touristy little fall getaway up north. Looking so forward to getting away for a bit, and de-stressing, and just having time to focus on each other.
Me: BH, 51
Her: FWW, 50 (ThornyRose)
M: 21 years, together 25
2 Daughters: 23 and 21
D Day: 9/25/2011; Lies & TT to 5/4/2012
~Double betrayal; caught them in the act~
2married2quit ( member #36555) posted at 3:24 PM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013
I can't wait to get to the 2yr mark. Glad you're doing better. Triggers will always happen but I guess with time you have to let them go.
BS - Me 47 WS - Her 45 ( she's a childhood sexual abuse survivor)
DDAY -#1- June 2012/ #2 -June 2015 / #3-August 2015
Married 25yrs. 2kids
She had 2 affairs with two different men.
Status: divorced.
catlover50 ( member #37154) posted at 3:29 PM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013
Good for you; have a great weekend!
Dday -9/23/2012
Reconciled
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 3:34 PM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013
Awesome update, DWBH! 
I do hope you have an outlet for those thoughts in your head, though. Just to let 'em out, so they don't fester. Feel free to PM me at any time if you ever need to vent.
Hope you both have an awesome long weekend together.
Take care.
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