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POS is still on his tirade since he found out I filed the Quit Claim to the marital home. In tonight's episode of "As the Brain Dead Turns," he is sending "resends" of the prior emails demanding I send him all kinds of crazy shit because of no response on my end. He added to it with a new demand that I immediately put the home back into joint ownership as the Quit Claim was not (in his delusional mind) supposed to be filed until the house sold in the future "as we discussed previously" (no such discussion ever occurred). He further demands repayment for remodeling that was done with his prior inheritance. He keeps forgetting he agreed to award me the home in the dissolution agreement as well as agreeing to it in a previous text message...

I just love it when he spouts off about things he clearly doesn't understand. For example, in our state inheritances are not included in asset distribution (which is the angle he is trying to take) if it was not used for the benefit of the marriage. Apparently he doesn't understand that spending it on the marital home WAS for the benefit of the marriage...duh! He is trying the same inheritance angle in other demands as well, including payback for a car we purchased for DD22 that became an extra car (that happens to be titled in my name), and which he expressly agreed to distribute to me in the dissolution settlement. He wants to make a trade with the proceeds from the sale of what is now my car to pay me his half of what he owes for DD16's orthodontics. Oh and he is using a car value of what we paid for it in 2009 (it's a 2001 model). But I owe him the full value because his inheritance paid for it. Guess he doesn't understand the concept of depreciation either.

I wish he would do his homework so he wouldn't sound so stupid. Think he is desperate for money and just now realizing what he agreed to in our divorce? That's what I think anyway. His demands will get laughed out of court as they would drastically create an imbalance in the whole "equitable distribution" requirement, and this is why I gladly paid to get an appraisal on the house and included it in the court filing!

He is both pissed AND desperate! Sorry about your luck asshole! Less than two weeks until our final hearing! After that it is off to sign up for CSE to take over handling CS enforcement since he failed to disclose a part-time job in the filing. That ought to really put his knickers in a bunch!

More crickets, but it is SO hard not to call him a blithering idiot!!!

[This message edited by Phoenix1 at 10:13 PM, October 6th (Sunday)]

Seriously? Everything is final, and he's thinking he can somehow go back and change things??

What a dumbass. Can you block his texts?

Can your L send a cease and desist on the harassment?

His L MUST have informed him of what the hell he was agreeing to. If it was an equitable distribution then I'd say he's run out of money and is looking for more of the pie.

Tough titties, dumbarse.

Ironic that he is acting like you are screwing him over majorly. He is going to put up a fight over what was an equitable distribution. On what planet is he living?

I too was forced to fight for 50% - I spent $50k to get $50k. He was trying to starve me out and didn't back off until he realised he could be up for 50% AND my costs. I kind of wish he had kept fighting.

I hope you're going for costs for this ridiculous shit.

Stay strong. Crickets is the only answer. Sounds to me like he's going to go down on public record for being a blithering idiot. Like an Official Blithering Idiot aka OBI-Wan-No-Know-Nothing.

Idiot.

We agreed on no attorneys, SBB, so it is all on him and his failure to do his own homework. For someone with a graduate degree he can be quite stupid at times. Oh, wait, I forgot that I was the one doing all his homework to GET that graduate degree and if not for me doing that he would not have gotten through it!!

The funny part is that the distribution of the home is mentioned in the settlement in THREE different locations, with one section specifically spelling out that he will not make any claim on the equity of the home while we hold a joint mortgage that will remain in place until I refinance (with no date to refinance because he destroyed my credit).

He is angry because I excluded some very valuable china/antiques from the distribution because I inherited them. These have been stored, unused, since I acquired them several years ago. Hence, they were never used for the "benefit of the marriage" and that has really chapped his hide big time. Now he wants to try to use the same strategy against me, but is too blinded by rage and idiocy to realize they are not the same situations.

I am going to go crickets until AFTER the final hearing on the 19th. Once it is official, I will be sending him a letter to advise no further communication not specifically involving DD16 or it will be deemed harassment and I will act accordingly.

Yes, he thinks I am screwing him over in an equitable distribution, which is all itemized in the settlement, and he now wants to change things. Maybe he has forgotten how expensive it is to raise a baby now that OW#3 and OC are living with him and they are playing happy family and he is hard up for money!

I'm thinking OW3 has figured out her new luv isn't as financially set as she anticipated so she's ragging him about what he's "giving" to you, telling him he's getting an unfair shake. Thus, he rags you. They really don't think straight when they're in the throes of luv land. Then, when reality hits, it must be your fault because it surely can't be his.... Dummies.

And I think you are spot on LIB!!

awe, poor baby. No pot o' gold at the end of his Unicorn Fart Rainbow?

tsk, tsk...