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sad34 (original poster member #40358) posted at 1:13 AM on Wednesday, October 9th, 2013
Not saying that it's necessarily negative. What ifs can make u more aware of future mistakes. It helps u to analyze the past to prepare for a better future. U just have to make sure not to let it drag u into a depression. This forum is about sharing your difficulties and your positives. I think the people who posted recognize there struggles and will work on it in their own time.
Bs: me 32 WH: 36
Dday: July 2012
LTA: 4years (ea, pa)
Dd-4. Ds-2
My life is shattered unsure about R
realgood2u ( member #20940) posted at 9:55 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013
Forty years worth.
Worst one is...what if I had just thrown him out ten years ago. What I would give for a do-over on that one.
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"Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cngsVlG3Z60
Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 8:13 AM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
Exactly sad34. I don't dwell on it so much now but.I used to. You are correct, you learn from the past. Those what ifs, turn into, should this happen again, I would handle it "this " instead of "that" so I wouldn't have to say, what if again. 
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
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