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Ashland13 (original poster member #38378) posted at 11:46 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
Piece of mail for XPervert came today.
Working very hard to forget it's existence.
It's some kind of letter someone paid a whole lot of money to send and has a big fancy envelope and was not in the regular mail.
Where to put it so that I can forget about it but not lose it?
The relief I have is that it's only in his name.
Is marked "urgent" everywhere.
Any guesses?
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
sparklezombie ( member #40095) posted at 12:02 AM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
I know mail can sometimes fall between the counter and the fridge or under the hall table. Shame when that happens 
BS: Me
WH: Husband
One daughter - 22 months
Married 11.5 years
2.5 false R's.
Status: Divorcing.
You can't pick up a turd by the clean end. Time to flush the toilet.
Ashland13 (original poster member #38378) posted at 12:05 AM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
Haven't laughed a belly laugh in so long!!!!!!!!!!!
TY, SZ.
I'm thinking maybe some collections people are driving the karma bus this week.
But he blames it on here and everything other than what he's done with OW.
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
debbysbaby ( member #32962) posted at 12:38 AM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
I actually get thsee sometimes. Theyre in a cardboard envelope that looks somewhat like express mail and they are marked urgent all over but they are only junk mail promoting some promotion a car dealership is having.
-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004
peridot ( member #18334) posted at 2:17 AM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
When I go through mail I don't look at who it is addressed to. If it's coming to my address, it's my mail. 
Just saying!
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
shiloe ( member #1224) posted at 2:45 AM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
Well Damm . . .it's urgent . . you better hurry up and read it BEFORE it get's lost behind the fridge
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But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 58 Dday 03/2011
Cheater -58 Married 26 yrs
DD - 23 DD -21 DS-19
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA- new MCOW D-2/17
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 4:31 PM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
Steam, Tgen Glue, Then Drop Behind The Counter...Unless It's A Bill Collector. Then, Forward!
Just Saying.
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
newlysingle ( member #38735) posted at 4:36 PM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
I occasionally get mail for the Gnat too. So far, it hasn't been anything important, but I open it. I figure if it's something I need to tell him about, I'll say I just opened it accidentally. You know it did come to my house, so I just assumed it was mine! 
BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13
Ashland13 (original poster member #38378) posted at 9:41 PM on Sunday, October 13th, 2013
Is this karma?
Well, the piece of mail was opened this weekend.
I wonder if it's karma because it was an account that he got all mixed up, so it got closed on him. 
Part of his control all these years was to not put any accounts in my name or shared, so now I am counting blessings because all these financial messes don't have to do with me while he goes down financially.
And Ow thinks she got herself a sugar daddy, but I would think the credit clean up and back bills will take quite a few years to be rid of.
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
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