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Ashland13 (original poster member #38378) posted at 9:13 PM on Sunday, October 13th, 2013
"How can you say I don't love that house? I love the house. I can't afford it because of the CS money."
The reality is that he has been hiding out in a house he shares with OW and shorts us when he can.
Although crickets probably should have been the reply, I did stand up and say electronically, "I think you forgot some things you told me during false r." The reply? Nothing to say.
The few people locally I still mention this to have wondered lately if he may be bipolar-or if it's just games?
Lately during my late night pondering, I think about personalities and wonder if being two faced could also be related or a form of passive aggression? Neither is pleasant but the latter would be nicer to swallow, as a semi-medical condition rather than jacka.. condition.
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Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
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dmari ( member #37215) posted at 10:20 PM on Sunday, October 13th, 2013
I hear ya! I think part of the reason I am not so incredibly fucking insanely pissed off at stbx is because I don't know if he is purely being a selfish cowardly asshole or a passive aggressive (amongst other mental health concerns) POS. It's probably 100% both. 
Anyways, I wanted to comment on your "neither is pleasant but the latter would be nicer to swallow ..." statements. Divorcing a passive aggressive man is difficult (a.k.a. crazy making, hair pulling, fearful, angry, etc, etc). Please do a goggle search on "divorcing a passive aggressive man". It's enlightening. I had an excellent article I wanted to share with you but the link no longer works.
Pass ( member #38122) posted at 10:25 PM on Sunday, October 13th, 2013
Ash, you need to cuss out in full. Let's hear you say "jackass". You can do it.
I was talking to my shrink one day about thinking The Princess might be NPD. He asked me if a diagnosis of NPD changes anything about our future relationship. No, Bob, it doesn't. She was a lying, cheating, cheater who lies, and she treated me like shit. A diagnosis may provide a slightly tidier explanation of why, but I'm also quite comfortable saying she's an arsehole - and that's all I really need to know about her mental state.
I also think the jackass in your life is an arsehole. I don't know if I've mentioned that yet. 
That's my diagnosis of his mental state. I won't even charge you for that.
Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.
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