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Phoenix1 (original poster member #38928) posted at 4:12 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
Out of the blue and totally unexpected, DD22 told me she was going with me for emotional and physical support this Saturday to the final hearing. She told me that even if I tell her no, which she was expecting me to do, she would show up anyway so there was no point in me arguing with her about it. She works at the courthouse and it is her second home so she is very comfortable there.
Never expected this, and it is so sweet on her part! It might make the event a little more tolerable knowing I have support there with me.
To my knowledge, POS still has no plans to be there since he waived his right to appear, and he can't afford the plane ticket anyway. However, my guard will be up and ready, just in case.
This is going to be a LONG week waiting...
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 4:29 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 4:45 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
Your DD is an awesome young lady.
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
StillStanding1 ( member #40144) posted at 5:08 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
Thank God for truly awesome kids! She sounds wonderful. So glad you have her support. You deserve it.
Me: BS50s Him: WH50s
M 25 years - DD DS DS
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday - 2/13, S for 1 year, now R
Merlin ( member #30221) posted at 5:23 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
My 21 year old son was in the gallery at a recent divorce court hearing. I asked him not to go. But he had seen the notice and said that nothing his mother or I could do would keep him away.
My ex-wife and her attorney tried to have him ejected and were denied as he was sitting there.
He watched all of it
"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A bird will fall frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself." D. H. Lawrence
Her: WW/57 Me: BS/63 24yrs M
3 great kids, now 22, 20, 17 b,b,g
D-Day 8/14/08, D 1/13/11
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