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sinsof thefather ( member #29295) posted at 5:29 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013
I need one. Tattooed, self-righteous, called herself 'a good person' more times than I care to count, tiny in both height and frame, thinks herself very tough and experienced in the world.
Saint Sil
Saint = Self Righteous 'good person'
S = Short
I = Inked
L = L.O.S.E.R (but that's a 'tough and experienced' L.O.S.E.R of course 
)
...second star to the right and straight on till morning.
sinsof thefather ( member #29295) posted at 5:35 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013
PrinceSs Chewbaca.
Priceless.
Another good one I read once (Sorry, I can't remember who used it) Jabba the Slut
...second star to the right and straight on till morning.
Stillstings ( member #36549) posted at 5:51 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013
Someone here refers to her as Sparkle Panties. I spit coffee all over the screen when I read that one.
Love yourself. You're worth it. Face your self. You need to do it.
eachdayisvictory ( member #40462) posted at 6:55 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013
sins of the father, of course I could rely on you to come up with Saint SIL, beautiful. I love the idea of ironically calling her a saint too.
Fuck I hate her. This has been a week of really, really hating her. Maybe I should put my energy into changing the direction of my thoughts now.
Calling names was really fucking fun though. Dorito face may be a new favourite of mine.
me, BW: 37
FWH: 38
together 19 years, M 13 years
Dday: Feb 2013
LTA for 2+years
children: 2 boys age 6 and 9
Reconciled
SI Staff ( Moderator #10) posted at 7:48 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013
Oldcow and Painfulpast,
Please do not use the "C word". The filter is in place for a reason.
Thank you.
[This message edited by SI Staff at 1:52 PM, November 9th (Saturday)]
dayatatime ( member #17090) posted at 12:08 AM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
BS 56
WH 59
son 17
EA 2007, S.A. recovery since 2011
Chandler ( member #23038) posted at 3:03 AM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
there are so many of them that I could not keep coming uo with names for each one so I refer to all of them collectively or individually as "Heifer(s)" plus this is a word that is not inappropriate just in case my son hears it.
ME:BS Him:WS
D-Day: Too many I lost count
OC born Jan 09
"If happy ever did exist, I would still be holding you like this, all those fairy tales are full of shit, one more fucking love song I'll be sick" -Maroon 5
struggling16 ( member #33202) posted at 3:59 AM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
I used to have a long list:
your whore
your slut
wheezy, whiny whore
grandpa **cker
your girlfriend
mall rat or wall-eyed mall rat
user loser
scar-ho (the AP is self-conscious about its c-section scar)
huffy
walking garbage
The taker (not a giver)
Appetizer McSplits
The hideabed whore
Now I just call the AP "it" or "your girlfriend".
newlysingle ( member #38735) posted at 4:19 AM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
Her main one is Hello Kitty, but I warmly refer to her as skankwhore and slutface as well.
BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13
heartache101 ( member #26465) posted at 4:20 AM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
My momma called hers Thingy!
I did not name his APs.
There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing
Exit Wounds ( member #32811) posted at 3:42 PM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
Exit WoundsH of 17 years got gf pregnant, left our kids 9 & 11 and we never saw him again. -His choice.
TheThreeYearFool ( member #41218) posted at 7:24 PM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
When speaking to WH I call her by her name. I think it brings some reality to what was his fantasy situation. He and the OW did a lot of cheater-speak in their emails, referring to her exBH and to me as "them" or "they" instead of using proper pronouns like he or she.
I want to get rid of the depersonalization that let WH compartmentalize his affair.
The childish part of me wants to call her Miss Piggy, though, because she's a fat blonde. I know I shouldn't get hung up on appearances (although I take some twisted comfort in the fact that my BIL, who was told by WH that OW was "a coworker" described her to my MIL as "some dumpy blonde").
I can't quite make myself do it though. Mostly because I always liked Miss Piggy.
Me - BW 36
Him - WH 41
Together 12 years, married 7
3 year LTA with former coworker
DDay 10/29/13
He says he wants to R... can I live with what he's done?
OldCow18 ( member #39670) posted at 7:28 PM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
Sorry SI, after seeing some of the language around here I didn't realize there was a rule on that word in particular. And what filter? Not sure what that means. Thx!
Me, BW forty something, DD & DS,
Married to WH (49) 11 years, together 16
D-Day 6.8.13
SI Staff ( Moderator #10) posted at 8:54 PM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
There are two words that are filtered on SI, and both start with C.
Truly ( member #40715) posted at 9:24 PM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
Ok, so most of you recognise the BBC= Bunny Boiling C.
But I don't think I've ever mentioned Chinchilla gorilla... you'd have to see it to believe it! LOL
There are dark shadows on the earth, but its lights are stronger in the contrast.
Charles Dickens
HurtButHopeful? ( member #25144) posted at 10:07 PM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
I don't actually call her any names, but I sure liked the names other people call OW!
Pitiful. That's the adjective use when I describe OW, since she can't get or keep a man of her own, but tries to steal other married women's husbands. My H was her second attempt to steal another woman's husband, and that's all I know of.
Resources for R:
His Needs Her Needs, by Dr. Willard Harley
Love Busters, by Dr. Willard Harley
(for husbands) Becoming the Ultimate Husband, by Reb Bradley
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 10:31 PM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
XWH had a number of OW, but I only knew a few that I could put names to:
-PregnaHo - this gem was pregnant by some other guy and screwing XWH (and probalby others) too
-Granny Tranny - this one was older than XWH's mom and looked like a rather poorly done up transvestite.
-VaGina (pronounced Va-GEENA) - her actual name is Regina, but my version fit better. Other acceptable variations include include Dirty VaGina, Puss-filled VaGina, etc.
-I nicknamed his OW collective as The Whore Brigade.
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 12:10 AM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
I usually refer to "her" or by her given name. Her name seems to hit WH harder than any other name I have called her.
Ditto.
"Your girlfriend" always was good, too. That one always pissed him off. He was "NC," you know. 
BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams
Vulcanized ( member #33523) posted at 12:56 AM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
My faves are: cum burping whore & lazy eyed tranny.
To XH, it was 'your mistress'. Boy, did that make XH mad! 
Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long
Now:-----> Everything is as it should be
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