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dreamlife (original poster member #8142) posted at 3:31 AM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
I had a nice conversation about pastries, etc.
It felt good to have a possible Friendship in my Moving Forward. 
He was engaging, humorous, and easy on the eyes despite being nearly 8 years older.
We exchanged phone numbers and I had a good 2 hour chat w/ him today. No more online dating stuff for me ------> E ver.
The conversation was lively and honest. To the point that we can only be friends, nothing more, nor am I seeking out a new H.
Just imagine...while looking at pastries. 
My D will be final in 3 weeks....relief!
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:40 AM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 4:55 AM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
I love hearing this!!!
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
numbandnauseous ( member #34525) posted at 5:13 AM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
Thanks for posting great stories like this!
It gives those of us who haven't yet started our NB hope!
So happy for you - enjoy!!!!
BS (me) - 50
WH - 58, EA with HS GF x 2, now deceased
M: 15 years, T: 20, divorced
2 teenage children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)
NaiveAgain ( member #20849) posted at 12:56 PM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
That sounds lovely!
Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 1:48 PM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
Pastries, ETCETERA?
Look at those buns, hun
See how they sugar and shine,
I'd like to take a lick oops look at that,
if they were only mine...
A swirling earlysweet drizzle,
so soft and warm on my tongue,
and doughysoft oft on mind's palate,
the hell! Pasties make me feel young!
A squeeze for your cakes of the roundmound,
slurp sounds coming close to your ear,
donut think I think this way public too much,
it cakes all kinds of crazy I fear.
We knead to get out more happy,
fruitfilling some fresh nutty dreams,
when warm from the oven a heartfeels,
the scents so pleasing mind beams!
cmego ( member #30346) posted at 1:57 PM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
Take2 ( member #23890) posted at 4:50 PM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?
dreamlife (original poster member #8142) posted at 9:39 PM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
jj...you are quite the naughty lil poet! 
yes, and prior to the pastries, I had a short chat with another gent in the meat dept over cooking pork roast!
When we verbally traded recipes and methods...he slow cooked his w/ a pkt of "seasoning" while I roast mine after studding it with sliced fresh garlic cloves & Italian herbs, etc and et al...he told me:
"Why you are ruining it"!!! 
Well, I knew right then and there that he was not gonna be any **New Friend** of mine!
Live and learn...
Sorry about the smilie emoticon screwing up in my first post.
Hmmm...maybe I should go wander around some computer shops? 
Techs are just so very...interesting!
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)
numbandnauseous ( member #34525) posted at 9:42 PM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
Oh my, jjct!!!! Hysterical - you are quite the poet!
I think you got a little carried away and let your true intentions be known when you substituted "pasties" for "pastries," though.
And, since "pasties make me feel young," will you soon be posting pictures of yourself in pasties?!
BS (me) - 50
WH - 58, EA with HS GF x 2, now deceased
M: 15 years, T: 20, divorced
2 teenage children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)
dreamlife (original poster member #8142) posted at 10:10 PM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
Clever, n&n!
And a great fund raising idea for SI!
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 12:36 AM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
I'm up for it - even after arguing with r's...
If pastries start a riot, can you guys imagine the meat dept?
I AIN'T GOIN THERE
We can't have the bus breakin down...
dreamlife (original poster member #8142) posted at 2:19 AM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)
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