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tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 1:00 AM on Saturday, November 16th, 2013
to be attracted to someone!
It's a professional situation so nothing's going to happen...but he has occassionally had to attend meetings that I have to attend...today was one of those days...Someone at the meeting asked me if it was Miss Tesla or Mrs. Tesla and I *thoroughly* enjoyed emphasizing that it was MOST definetely *Miss* Tesla!!!
And then I mentally kicked my own ass for feeling like a was 16 again. 
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
phmh ( member #34146) posted at 1:14 AM on Saturday, November 16th, 2013
Great to read! I had a two month fling with a guy I was so attracted to...I'm not sure I was ever that attracted to someone before.
Isn't it great?
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 2:37 AM on Saturday, November 16th, 2013
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
ChoosingHope ( member #33606) posted at 2:39 AM on Saturday, November 16th, 2013
This made me smile. 
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 10:07 AM on Saturday, November 16th, 2013
Watch out. When it rains it pours.
You've been warned.
Just sayin'.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 3:14 PM on Saturday, November 16th, 2013
So nice to get back in the game isn't it!??! 
divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 3:38 PM on Saturday, November 16th, 2013
This made me smile Miss Tesla
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 1:20 AM on Sunday, November 17th, 2013
Well heck yes.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
JenniMay ( member #24595) posted at 1:53 AM on Sunday, November 17th, 2013
Love this post!
I recently experienced this myself! Went on a horse-back ride up in the mountains---just me, my mom & the guide.
I haven't been able to stop thinking about the guide! My mom said we talked for 2 hours straight & she was sure he was going to ask for my number at the end of the ride. We had so much in common--most importantly, horses!
We're going back for Thanksgiving & my heart races just thinking about it!
It's good to know there's actually blood pumping through my heart & I'm not totally destroyed from what happened almost 3.5 years ago, because I was starting to think I was!
[This message edited by JenniMay at 7:55 PM, November 16th (Saturday)]
lifestoshort ( member #18442) posted at 3:39 AM on Sunday, November 17th, 2013
great feeling!! makes us feel alive, and worthy. gives hope and vision for future things to happen.
Im 45. 1st H I left in 2001 after 3 kids. narcassist.
2nd exH had MANY affairs.FALSE R. cheats again. D 5/09. 2 kids. I got 100% custody. ex hasnt seen kids in 6 yrs.
2014 to now: dated highschool sweetheart. He cheated w 23 yr old & left.
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 4:10 AM on Sunday, November 17th, 2013
Great post, Tesla!!
Was he paying attention? He should definitely be kicking himself if he missed an opening like that with a beautiful woman!
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 5:27 AM on Sunday, November 17th, 2013
It is so great when you can feel that again, whether it leads to anything or works out in the long run. Just feeling alive and all giddy and excited about somebody reminds you how it can be. I never thought butterflies where possible again - and yes, they are.
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 3:26 PM on Sunday, November 17th, 2013
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
traicionada ( member #10310) posted at 3:37 PM on Sunday, November 17th, 2013
Enjoy every minute of it
Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...
tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 4:31 PM on Sunday, November 17th, 2013
That's it exactly...it made me feel alive again.
I have so many roles to play at the moment and balls to keep up in the air, I just don't have time to really even think about dating...
...but...
...I may need to ask him for his opinion on one of my troublesome students...
...over a candlelit dinner... 
I'm eyeing the emergency exit at the back of the bus and wondering if I can make a break for it!
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
newnormal ( member #21925) posted at 5:33 PM on Sunday, November 17th, 2013
I'm eyeing the emergency exit at the back of the bus and wondering if I can make a break for it!
My new favorite quote!
BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07
Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo
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