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StrongerOne ( member #36915) posted at 3:49 PM on Friday, December 13th, 2013
SEriously?? LOL, he can't TRUST you?
Oh, you know where you can stick that remark.
Big hugs. What a jerk -- you deserve so much better!
karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 5:12 PM on Friday, December 13th, 2013
Continue the 180. ((((Hugs))))
I know today will be tough. Be good to yourself.
Don't answer his calls or texts. He is spewing hate you don't need to hear right now.
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
KatieG (original poster member #41222) posted at 10:12 AM on Saturday, December 14th, 2013
Got through yesterday, he came back in the morning, I think out of duty so I wasn't on my own. I went NC with my mother earlier this year and so I had to manage my DS going to the funeral without me and finding something to do with myself. We went out and I was 180 all the way.
It seemed to drive him nuts because we were stuck in his anger and my 180.
When we got back, I started to feel bad and tried to control it. But he could see I was wobbling and that seemed to break his anger. So he wanted me to feel bad! Once I started to feel bad he was OK. Fucked up much - or normal?
[This message edited by KatieG at 4:13 AM, December 14th (Saturday)]
DD#1 - Oct 13
"Everyone says forgiveness is a lovely idea, until they have something to forgive" - CS Lewis
justjim ( member #41150) posted at 11:29 AM on Saturday, December 14th, 2013
He is manipulating you, and seems to be enjoying it.
Turn it around on him. Realize what he is doing, and use it.
Follow your BRAIN.
Your HEART is stupid as shit.
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