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Harriet (original poster member #34543) posted at 3:52 AM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2014
I feel so strong, so indifferent. And then the ex texts me and it catches me by quiet surprise that seeing his name on my phone sends a shot of pure anger and hatred through me, because I know it will be a terse message about picking up the kids, and not a heartfelt apology nor a message that he is lonely this new year's eve nor that he misses me or his old family life. He is just doing what I asked of him - NC unless it has to do with the kids. But I hate him for doing it tonight, being so silent like I asked him to be, but still being there in my head.
[This message edited by Harriet at 12:11 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)]
D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:04 AM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2014
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
NotFixable ( member #41608) posted at 4:22 AM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2014
(((Harriet))) I understand....totally!
Me-BS
Him-WH
Married 13 years
DD #1 03/12
DD #2 11/20/13
DD #3 came after the others although it was with whore #1. Took a while to admit to her because she's so fat and disgusting.
So many additional AP came out later that I lost count.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 5:09 AM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2014
katiesmom ( member #39074) posted at 3:12 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2014
(((Harriet)))
I totally understand. I feel the same way when my ex's name pops up on my phone in a text. Nothing but pure anger.
Harriet (original poster member #34543) posted at 7:11 AM on Monday, January 6th, 2014
I changed his name to God's Gift to Women. Now I chuckle when he texts. 
D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12
BAB61 ( member #41181) posted at 7:38 AM on Monday, January 6th, 2014
My dd (16) changed his name on her phone from 'Daddikins' to 'Cheating Asshole' .... makes me laugh every time I think of it. I hear you about the little cat feet ...sneaks up on you.
Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.
Pass ( member #38122) posted at 10:33 PM on Monday, January 6th, 2014
It's like we all have a Shining thing going on: I changed The Princess' name in my phone to "Cheating C**t". Some day I may be ready for something a little less hateful, but that day ain't here yet!
Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 11:37 PM on Monday, January 6th, 2014
I hear you. For a long time, his name on my phone was a name family and I used to make fun of him (oddly, not ex-shat...family has something else they enjoy calling him 
)
Now I've changed his name to his full, given name...but I sure HATE seeing it pop up on my phone.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
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