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Divorce/Separation :
video from my gig (and a couple more gig announcements)

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 Pass (original poster member #38122) posted at 6:03 PM on Monday, January 13th, 2014

Hey kids,

A bunch of you had expressed interest in seeing video from my gig last week. 13 recorded these with his phone, so the quality isn't great. I think it makes my mandolin sound a little more high-pitched and annoying than it normally sounds (at least I hope so!).

Here are four of the sixteen songs I performed.

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Blind Stupid Love (The Barnacle Song)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EIuItc2ozBs

Darwinian Gospel Song

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h1-F1TqhdYQ

The Women that I’ve Loved

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8QIWA-bkyJk

Moo-cow

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=URA25Z5rua8

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Also, I don't think I've mentioned this before, but one of the board of directors for the folk society I belong to got in touch with me to see if I have a band. She has a concert coming up in March that she needs one more band for. Since I run the weekly folk jam for them, I told her that I will have one put together in no time. I got in touch with a couple guys, and we'll be playing a 45 minute set at this concert. Feeling pretty cool about this.

ALSO, a guy who is one of the organizers for the weekly open stage I attend is also the artistic director for a new festival in town (this April will be its third annual festival). He told me that he wants to have a banjo workshop at the festival, and asked if I would be willing to get up on a stage with three other banjo players to talk about our banjos, our playing philosophy, etc., and do some playing. I said yes, of course. Now there are two things that are really cool about being asked to do this:

#1 - The other three banjo-players are the best in the city, so he obviously thinks I'm in the same class as they are. I don't, but I'm willing to accept the compliment.

#2 - I had decided a couple of years ago, when my therapy first started, that I needed to set some goals for myself, and that at least one of them should be a ridiculous goal. My ridiculous goal was to play at a festival in 2014. How frigging cool is THAT?

Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.

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IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 6:09 PM on Monday, January 13th, 2014

This is such an awesome post. I am loving all of the good things happening for you. Keep putting those ridiculous goals out there, you never know what the universe will answer with

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Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
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ruby44 ( member #41135) posted at 12:06 AM on Tuesday, January 14th, 2014

Awesome, great job!

Me BW 52, Him WH 48
Married 13 years,
2 DDs (12 and 10)
D-Day Confirmed 10/24/13 suspected before that but did not want to believe it.
WH filed for D 11/12/13
2/8/14 WH asked if he could come home.

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BAB61 ( member #41181) posted at 12:13 AM on Tuesday, January 14th, 2014

Dang, I'm at the library, no headphones so I need to wait until I get home.

Woohoo!!! Great job ... I agree the audio quality leaves a little to be desired, but WTG in any case! Kudos on the festival too!

[This message edited by BAB61 at 7:38 PM, January 13th (Monday)]

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Flowerforme ( new member #38497) posted at 12:20 AM on Tuesday, January 14th, 2014

Enjoyed your music! Thx for posting the links.

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Kelany ( member #34755) posted at 12:24 AM on Tuesday, January 14th, 2014

Loved Moo-cow!!!

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 12:28 AM on Tuesday, January 14th, 2014

Sounds like someone is gonna need a new ridiculous goal.

You can call me NIK

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FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 12:49 AM on Tuesday, January 14th, 2014

Way to rock the new beginning.

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20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
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to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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NewMom0220 ( member #39036) posted at 1:26 AM on Tuesday, January 14th, 2014

This is so awesome. I love Don't You Call Me Sweetheart. You are very talented.

This post was inspiring. Kudos to you Pass.

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Him: WS 37
20 month old DS
Married 5 years, together 8, DIVORCING!!! (taking forever)
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IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 2:56 AM on Tuesday, January 14th, 2014

Love, love, love the videos. Thank you for sharing. You are quite talented.

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Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
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Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 3:04 AM on Tuesday, January 14th, 2014

Awesome post and links. I just wish you had the lyrics posted somewhere. The audio on my computer's bad.

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thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 3:22 AM on Tuesday, January 14th, 2014

Cool!! Makes me want to go all the more! Thanks!

Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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 Pass (original poster member #38122) posted at 4:22 AM on Tuesday, January 14th, 2014

Thanks so much, everyone!

Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.

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