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betrayedfriend ( member #19785) posted at 4:25 AM on Friday, January 31st, 2014
((Jana)) I'm so very sorry. Please take all the time to rest, recuperate, and take care of yourself. These next few weeks will be the hardest. We're here for you. I've lost four angels, the pain gets bearable in time.
I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.
Vulcanized ( member #33523) posted at 4:32 AM on Friday, January 31st, 2014
Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long
Now:-----> Everything is as it should be
turtle72 ( member #21773) posted at 4:47 AM on Friday, January 31st, 2014
Me: 41 BS/WW/BS
2 kids 9 & 11, 3 steps 20, 8 and 3
BS 1st DDay 10/14/08, 5 mo. PA w/ MOW
WW 2nd D-Day 3/22/10, my exit A with HS BF
Separated 4/19/10
Married H #2 10/8/11
BS latest Dday 12/28/13 - PA w/ single COW
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 5:02 AM on Friday, January 31st, 2014
You'll cry when the time is right.
{{{hugs}}}
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 5:18 AM on Friday, January 31st, 2014
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 7:52 AM on Friday, January 31st, 2014
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 1:07 PM on Friday, January 31st, 2014
Failure is success if we learn from it.
JessicaFL127 ( member #26864) posted at 1:18 PM on Friday, January 31st, 2014
BW,35
divorced for 10 years
Happily remarried to a much better choice.:D
mom to two awesome boys,14 and 13
And now to a beautiful baby girl, 1 <3
"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 1:35 PM on Friday, January 31st, 2014
(((Jana))) 
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
JanaGreen (original poster member #29341) posted at 2:07 PM on Friday, January 31st, 2014
OK, this is annoying. I would have liked to have had the D&C today, but since my appointment was at 3:45 yesterday and I didn't even finish talking to my doctor until 5:25, the scheduling person was gone and I was told it would be Monday. So I get a call just a minute ago and the lady asked if I could come in at noon. Well, I had a bigass coffee this morning and my H made pancakes. So yeah, that's a no. Fuck. It'll be 8:00 am on Monday, which means I have to check in at the hospital at 6:00 am.
refuz2bavictim ( member #27176) posted at 2:13 PM on Friday, January 31st, 2014
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:13 PM on Friday, January 31st, 2014
((((Jana))))
This has just been the most frustrating week for you. Do something very nice for yourself this weekend. A new doo, a massage, something.
You deserve it.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
JanaGreen (original poster member #29341) posted at 2:19 PM on Friday, January 31st, 2014
Well since I'm no longer taking prenatals, I might finally be able to doo.
I'm sorry, that was awful, I couldn't resist though.
I really could use a haircut though. Good idea.
stroppy_wanadoo ( member #11224) posted at 2:38 PM on Friday, January 31st, 2014
(((Jana))) My thoughts are with you. So sorry for your loss!
Hurtm ( member #41102) posted at 3:19 PM on Friday, January 31st, 2014
Hugs Jana (()). I've been there and it sucks
Me: 36 and awesome (now 38)
Him: 37 and a douche (otherwise known as DB)
DD day October 17th (my birthday, lucky me)
Married 9 years, together 14
DS 8, DD 5
Finally officially divorced after almost 4 years
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 4:28 PM on Friday, January 31st, 2014
So sorry, Jana.
Take care of yourself.
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 4:30 PM on Friday, January 31st, 2014
itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 4:33 PM on Friday, January 31st, 2014
I'm so sorry, Jana. 
SoVerySadNow ( member #36711) posted at 9:22 PM on Sunday, February 2nd, 2014
Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.
solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 10:25 PM on Sunday, February 2nd, 2014
((((Jana)))) thinking of you
BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams
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