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How can she not get it???

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 mof2 (original poster member #40287) posted at 5:32 AM on Sunday, January 26th, 2014

I have been wondering why she honestly think he will not do the same to her that he did to me. My ex left me for an old friend who has been on his Facebook for years before he left me for her. He used to always boast about me on his statuses. Saying how much he loved me and that I was a great wife. I think I would be scared to death if I were her!

BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.

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BAB61 ( member #41181) posted at 5:39 AM on Sunday, January 26th, 2014

She's drinking the coolaid ... no help for her....

Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

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ImEnoughForMe ( member #41869) posted at 12:31 PM on Sunday, January 26th, 2014

Because she believes his lies. It makes me smile though to know she is getting sloppy seconds. it's nothing "special" or "unique".

Do the best you can do until you know better. Then when you know better, do better. - Maya Angelou

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tesla ( member #34697) posted at 1:44 PM on Sunday, January 26th, 2014

Because she has the magic bullet that will change him. She's different, she's special, and their lurve is true.

Give it time. Reality will set in.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 2:08 PM on Sunday, January 26th, 2014

Even my 18 yr old son can see how insecure wifetress is. The last time I saw ex in person, he scurried away like he didn't have permission to be around me. I texted him several months ago about something from the divorce he never took care of, and I got one word replies. It sounds to me like wifetress keeps him on a very short leash.

There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown

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Pass ( member #38122) posted at 2:16 PM on Sunday, January 26th, 2014

People don't do these things to demonstrate what fucking geniuses they are. She'll find out.

Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.

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 mof2 (original poster member #40287) posted at 4:18 PM on Sunday, January 26th, 2014

I don't know if she will eventually get it or not. She left her H for my H as well. I can only imagine the trust issues are going to be astronomical. I really just want to get to the point where I don't care if they stay together or not. In a way, I hope they do stay together because I would not want to see them tear anymore marriages based on their fake, euphoric feelings.

BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.

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