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sadone29 ( member #38597) posted at 2:26 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
Oh, I'm so sorry. (((movingforward777)))
DDay Feb. 28, 2013
"It is an act of self-respect and preservation to not forgive."
He finally moved out only because I became on obstacle in his new affair.
sinsof thefather ( member #29295) posted at 2:32 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
I'm sorry for your loss ((movingforward777))
...second star to the right and straight on till morning.
itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 4:02 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm praying for your family.
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 4:05 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
Prayers going out to you and your family.
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 4:05 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
((movingforward777)) i'm so sorry you lost your mum. Prayers for you and your family
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Going_Under ( member #11606) posted at 4:09 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
((((movingforward777)))
My dad died of pneumonia in December. I miss him terribly and it was awful to see him suffer so much. I am so very sorry for your loss.
BS 44 (Me)
FWH 47
M 24 years
Three Children ages 22, 18, and 10
D-Day 08/10/2004, 7-Year LTA that ended 4 months before D-Day.
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 4:14 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
Oh my, I'm so sorry. ((((HUGS)))
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 4:34 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
"What we have once enjoyed, we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes part of us." -Helen Keller
My sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved Mum, movingforward.
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
BAB61 ( member #41181) posted at 4:37 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
Condolences to you, your family & friends. (((Movingforward777))) Sending prayers your way!
Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.
movingforward777 (original poster member #6850) posted at 5:16 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
"What we have once enjoyed, we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes part of us." -Helen Keller
Thank you Sister...I have been thinking about what I am going to say on Saturday...this is a really good place to start....
Thank you all for all the love, prayers and support...it means the world to me...HUGS
You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 5:18 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
Oh, I am so sorry to hear about this. My deepest sympathy for you and your family.
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 5:29 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
So sorry for your loss.
Mum's are special people.
(((movingforward777)))
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 8:04 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
I'm very sorry for your loss and the rest of your family's loss.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 8:25 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
Sister, what a beautiful quote.
(((Moving))
My lovely mum left at 90, and she is with me every day.
You will always have her near with that much love in your hearts.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
cass ( member #24261) posted at 11:15 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
I am so very sorry for your loss. My beautiful wee mum was called away too 
Take comfort from knowing you were given to a unique and wonderful woman. They live on in us and she lives on in you.
(((movingforward777)))
DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 12:23 AM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014
(((moving)))
Your mum and dad are proud, and happy that you can appreciate that they are back together.
May your positive memories provide you peace and comfort.
(((and strength)))
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
hurting2much ( member #25643) posted at 12:43 AM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014
((((movingforward))). So sorry about your loss
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 12:51 AM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014
..
..prayers sent to you and family during this sad time of loss.
smy
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 6:56 AM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014
(((moving)))
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.
HurtsButImOK ( member #38865) posted at 8:14 AM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014
So sorry for the loss to you and your family.
My Dad passed away over thirteen years ago, and yesterday I felt him come and take Mum with him.
^^ that is so beautiful. To have a love so pure and true that even death does not keep you separate from the other half of your soul. Together again.
Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore
"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou
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