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Divorce/Separation :
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 newlysingle (original poster member #38735) posted at 10:18 PM on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014

So I'm awaiting the plumber to do what will hopefully be the final work on our sewer line.....with the Gnat. He is paying for the repair and wanted to speak with the plumber regarding the work before he starts. The Gnat is also going to do a few small repairs for me while the plumber works. Of course the plumber is running late and we're forced to "hang out" until he gets here.

Ugh, once he starts the work, the Gnat is taking the kids home with him for the night. I have not had to spend this much time with him in ages. Hurry up plumber!

Just one more reason to sell the house soon. I don't want to do this again.

BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 11:44 PM on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014

Strength to you, honey. ((((newlysingle))))

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 12:05 AM on Thursday, February 13th, 2014

How did it go?

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014

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careerlady ( member #16958) posted at 12:13 AM on Thursday, February 13th, 2014

(((Newlysingle)))

sucks. At least he's being helpful. The Snake might deign to supervise/question the plumber but wouldn't do stuff around the house. Far too lazy...

Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI

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 newlysingle (original poster member #38735) posted at 3:43 AM on Thursday, February 13th, 2014

I am grateful that he wasn't a dick about this. He also agreed in the divorce decree to help with the repairs around the house. He's very hand and can fix almost anything. It's probably the only thing I miss about having him around.

The funny thing is that he was really agitated while he was here and I don't know why. It had nothing to do with me. We were fine and cordial with one another. It could have been an issue with work or a problem in unicorn fartland.

BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13

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h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 4:15 AM on Thursday, February 13th, 2014

Getting out of the house was such a relief for me. Even living with my Mom was better than being in OUR house after she left. It was even worse when she was there.

keep your chin up. it will get better.

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