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Reconciliation :
when will i ever feel better

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 Roxyme765 (original poster new member #41764) posted at 5:08 PM on Thursday, February 13th, 2014

i moved back in with my WS end of january 2014. i know the rollercoaster lasts a while, i know we all want to get off and have to just work through it. when will i ever feel better? i feel like i am forcing myself to be affectionate. i keep telling myself to be positive and really give it 100% this time. i found out in april, back then i was trying but he wasnt - moved out in august - he was trying and i wasnt. now we are both giving it 100%. we have put ourselves in a bubble and are trying to just focus on our marriage and getting rid of any negative influences. i just dont know whats right. i am trying so hard to be positive and make it work. i just dont know if it is the right thing

Me: BS, 30
Him: WS, 30
D-Day: April 2013 (about 5 years of cheating with multiple OW)
2 or 3? false R.
DIVORCED! 07/2014!!

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deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 6:13 PM on Thursday, February 13th, 2014

I wish I could answer that with a definite time, but I really can't answer it. I hope for all the best for you both.

Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.

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