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 Breezy150 (original poster member #42421) posted at 6:53 PM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014

I woke up this morning with a little more clarity, thanks to everyone here. I thought you really had to decide immediately if you were willing to R and then go all in.

This morning I realized all I have to do right now is take care of myself and worry about healing me, not our M. He has to convince me if there is an M to save.

Starting 180, starting my healing instead of being consumed with his A. Still keeping my eyes wide open but letting go of some of the all consuming pain until I am better equipped to deal. I will decide if R is even feasible when he proves it is.

I am so disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually start on fire.

BS me 41
WH 42 his whore was my friend
Married 24 years
Finally finding R?
3 kids 3 grand kids
DDay 1 -Jan 2 2014
DDay 2 -Feb 20 2014 A went underground fo

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lastdance ( member #42401) posted at 9:16 PM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014

do tend to yourself----you need all your strength==rest,exercise and eat -----meditate ,it is my salvation-----remember honey you did nothing wrong--you have nothing to prove------you have been deeply hurt and yes you are sleeping with the enemy-----remind yourself to be alert for you have lived with deception for so long you can be easily be deceived again by hubby---you know he is good at lies so stay alert---that is why you need to rest---180 is good-----no contact will benefit you-----is he out of the house yet----stay healthy

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 Breezy150 (original poster member #42421) posted at 9:59 PM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014

He is not out of the house so I will only be implementing parts of 180. He does work very long hours at home and works away from home two weeks a month. So I don't see him much.

I am so disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually start on fire.

BS me 41
WH 42 his whore was my friend
Married 24 years
Finally finding R?
3 kids 3 grand kids
DDay 1 -Jan 2 2014
DDay 2 -Feb 20 2014 A went underground fo

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norabird ( member #42092) posted at 1:04 AM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014

Good for you Breezy. I think this approach will give you a great deal more peace.

Sit. Feast on your life.

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