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twitching (original poster member #42399) posted at 10:17 PM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014
What kind of physical pain do you have? Mine have been:
Headaches
dehydration
neck and shoulder pain (so bad that I couldn't lift one arm)
Tingly out of body feeling
"My heart was broken and my head was just barely inhabitable. " - Anne Lamont
strangeasfiction ( member #42160) posted at 10:30 PM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014
Me - BS 39
Her - WW 34
Kids - 3 & 1
Married - 9 years
Status - FUBAR
scarednbroken ( member #41961) posted at 10:36 PM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014
I have had a cold lingering since November - not a simple one - coughing aching, migraines, chest pains, teeth hurting, etc. October was when I found out that he was seeing multiple hookers. I have been to the doctor they say its stress related. When I read messages between him and his OWs, I get very nauseated.
Much of this can be accounted to stress, grinding or gritting teeth, low appetite so low nutrition. I think that's why the best advice I got from here was eat well, exercise, drink lots of water. Because if you don't you will get sick.
BS: Me 47 WH: 54 Kids: 17, 19, 21, 32 DD: every yr Ow: tons Status: fed-up. A woman should never invest in a relationship she wouldn't want for her daughter, nor should she allow any man to treat her in a way she would scold her son for
StuckinNJagain ( member #42140) posted at 12:55 AM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014
I have constant headaches and dont sleep much. Constantly tired and trouble concentrating on most everything. When i think of the A i get a physical pain in my chest n stomach. Anxiety i think.
BH-46 (me)
WS-44
DD-16
DS-12
First Dday-2/09
Sec Dday-1/14
Married 17 yrs. Together 26
cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 1:26 AM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014
Trouble sleeping, mostly waking very early, 4am, for over a year now.
Grinding teeth in sleep, clenching teeth.
Back pain, never had this before, it is constant now.
I vomited every day after dday #1, now it is only when I get very stressed.
Poor appetite.
Concentration, focus, that is a struggle, it is a conscious effort.
The physical is easier to take than the emotional.
My IC showed me a technique called tapping, it helps.
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie
Lethealbegin ( member #32826) posted at 1:48 AM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014
Hi!
sometimes my heart aches!
BS me
WS him
OW my former friend and neighbor
Dday 1 2/20/11
Dday 2 3/08/11
Dday 3 3/05/14 {Fully Disclosed every lie}
Two little ones
Married 19 years at the time of dday 1
twitching (original poster member #42399) posted at 2:30 AM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014
Oh, and how could I forget, my hands shake and twitch all the time.
"My heart was broken and my head was just barely inhabitable. " - Anne Lamont
CantLoseHope ( member #42356) posted at 2:40 AM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014
unfortunately I do get literal chest pains
severe anxiety
unable to eat, leading to stomach issues
dehydration as well
muscle aches
migraines
parts of my body hurting that I didn't even know could hurt 
"A tree falls the way it leans.....be careful which way you lean"
CantLoseHope ( member #42356) posted at 2:43 AM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014
Also grinding teeth so much when I sleep that my jaw hurts all day long, sometimes difficult to even open my mouth to take a bit of food.
"A tree falls the way it leans.....be careful which way you lean"
ginasister ( new member #41877) posted at 2:56 AM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014
I have had sleep apnea for years and had a mouth appliance. Since D-day, I have TMJ disorder from grinding my teeth. The TMJ is exacerbated by the appliance so I can't wear it. Now I am grinding my teeth and waking up all night and falling asleep at my computer at work. Thank you, STBX!
iwillNOT ( member #40605) posted at 4:11 AM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014
Stabbing aching stomach pain, nausea
"digestive issues" we'll leave it at that
throbbing pain in my chest, all the way down to my hands and feet
neck/arm pain with symptoms down to my hand(tight muscles/stress)
shaking at times
My IC remarked on how much severe emotional pain can be felt physically. It gives me a new understanding of "heartbreak". It literally feels like something in your body has broken.
I am so sorry for all of us who have had to deal with this.
Me: BS, 46
Him: WH, 47
Together 24 years
4 amazing kids
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Choosing myself daily and R almost every
beautytoashes5 ( member #41900) posted at 4:48 AM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014
I've been losing a lot of my hair.
Fatigue
Insomnia
Chest area hurts
Stomach hurts
Headaches
Gotmegood ( member #41407) posted at 4:55 AM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014
When I first had conversations w/ WH my body trembled. Lack of sleep, interrupted sleep, and nightmares.
Me: faithful wife 62.
Him: WH 64 , prostitute 20 yr old
DDay: 8-13-2013
Status: boinging up and down like a yo-yo
BrooklynLove ( member #41800) posted at 6:27 AM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014
I have insomnia and because I have a newborn it just makes it worst. I am 1 year out from DDay and haven't had a good nights sleep in that year. During my pregnancy my Midwife had me take unisom but it doesn't work anymore (only work the first couple of times).
Will never be naive again...
BW - Me (29)
WH - Him my JH sweetheart (34)
Married - 8 years
2 babies - DD (4) and DD (1)
OW#1 - PA with classmate for 2 months
OW#2 - Some slut living oversees that needs a green card. EA & PA going on for ye
lovehatelove ( member #42541) posted at 9:22 AM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014
I get severe anxiety when I think about the affair... my heart races and I can't concentrate... I also feel nauseous a lot too...
if I get super super nervous, I get the poops (tmi sorry!) haha but it's the truth....
Sparkle0504 ( member #40379) posted at 2:54 PM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014
Same ↑↑↑
Hair loss
Periods of being unable to eat and nausea.
Physically sick a few times (the worst being right after I installed the keylogger - what had I become, having to do that???)
Worst and for which I am utterly ashamed, I cut myself for about four months. This "isn't me" and I will never allow myself to get so low again. Nothing and nobody is worth that.
Ooh! I'm all pissed again! Good job he's not here right now lol. 
Me 52 (BS) Him 60 (EXSAWH)
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011
I'm done. Separated.
Time is always right, to do right. (Dr Martin Luther King)
ncharge ( member #42365) posted at 3:06 PM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014
Can't sleep
Dry mouth
No appetite
Can't focus for long
And WH: chest pains, dehydration
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NikkiD ( member #38173) posted at 5:58 PM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014
neck and shoulder pain
no appetite
"Spoil me with Loyalty; I can finance myself...."
ME: BS-33
HE: WS-32
Married 3 years, known 20
2 kids
D-Day #1 12/30/12
False Recovery
D-Day #2 1/21/14
LTA 5 years-ish
Riding the "Struggle Bus"
Living apart....
Breezy150 ( member #42421) posted at 8:27 PM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014
Neck pain, severe chest pain, shakes, tingling, sore jaw, headache, throwing up. I was burning myself for a week or so, but quit that and got a new tattoo to try and get the emotional pain out into physical pain. Can't sleep even with pills, and finally on some anxiety medicine that helps. Had my restless leg syndrome under control with meds but now it seems worse.
I am so disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually start on fire.
BS me 41
WH 42 his whore was my friend
Married 24 years
Finally finding R?
3 kids 3 grand kids
DDay 1 -Jan 2 2014
DDay 2 -Feb 20 2014 A went underground fo
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