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"To the Millennial I left my wife for"

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 poopylala (original poster member #30119) posted at 4:48 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

When I read this, I felt sick to my stomach.

I'm not sure if anyone else posted about this on here but both the man and the young intern need serious help. She broke up with him and he writes her this letter... His poor kids and wife

http://thoughtcatalog.com/anonymous/2014/02/to-the-millennial-i-left-my-wife-for-and-8-parting-words-of-advice/

"To err is human;To forgive,divine"

<3 DS always

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BtraydWife ( member #42581) posted at 4:57 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

What a pathetic loser. The comments below seem to agree. Total dork. Hopefully his ex wife met a real man after he left.

Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010

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Dreamboat ( member #10506) posted at 5:08 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

That entire thing was full of cliches. Talk about rainbow farting unicorns

And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

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MinorBee ( member #17895) posted at 5:10 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

Why, oh why, is the barf icon not bigger, with a huge pool of vomit?

previously married for 20 years
DDays: which time?, OW's which one?

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emotionalgirl ( member #40184) posted at 5:10 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

OMG even if that turned out to be a work of fiction, what kind of idiot writes that and thinks it is ok!

This is definitely a case where the wife should be saying....thank god I escaped that relationship.

1st D day: Saturday July 20,2013
2nd D day....when the s**t really hit the fan and the truth came out.Saturday August 3,2013
3rd D day: Friday August 16, 2013...NC sent Friday Aug 30 4th D day NOV 11
Me: BS
Him: WH
Married 25 years....finally in R

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meplusfour ( member #38958) posted at 5:13 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

What an idiot. I am torn between anger towards this ego-centric moron and sympathy for his ex-wife who must continue to deal with this clueless imbecile as a co-parent.

BW (me)42
WH 44
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
In R
"Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to the way they used to be."

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FeelingSoMuch ( member #38814) posted at 5:15 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

Wow. It's like that was written for a child. That's effed up

It's so paternalistic and terrible it would be funny if this person didn't have a wife and children.

Me: BH
Her: WW
Together since 2001. Married since 2007. Found out about her affairs in 2013. Now separated, waiting for divorce paperwork and in a wonderful new relationship. Life is good again.

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Mhiimg65 ( member #41951) posted at 5:17 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

Talk about rainbow farting unicorns

Sure hope karma continues to kick him in the arse....

" He paved paradise and put up a parking lot"
BS - me
WS- him
married 26 years, together since kids
D- Day Jan 4 2014
PMA- starting this moment
R - in MC. WH is in IC

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SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 5:25 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

I am sorry this "article" made you feel sick, poopylala.

I actually found it hilarious. Especially,

3. Continue to make your bed. I know you did it for me, but it truly made your day better. But remember too, that it doesn’t matter if you leave your bed unmade and your clothes all over the floor. You’re fantastic the way you are and those who love you don’t really care.

Really, a douche trying to sound all wise and stuff. Hilarious!!!!

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

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steadfast1973 ( member #24719) posted at 5:46 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

it made me laugh, too. What a douche.

Me- 42- BS Him- 38- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 multi EAs, likely PA, trickle truth, d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute Separated 1/2017
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah"

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Lovedyoumore ( member #35593) posted at 5:56 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

Thirty something? Sounds like a foolish old fart to me. The last parting words were about his masturbating? What a self centered creep. They were both screwed up. Him for going after the young women telling her his marriage was dead (I will bet that was news to his wife) and her for messing up a family for a fling.

Me 50's
WH 50's
Married 30+ years
2 young adult children
OW single 20 years younger
Together trying to R

Freedom's just another word for nothin' left to lose

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Rainbows ( member #39362) posted at 6:09 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

That article creeped me out.

There is always a rainbow after every storm.

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jstbreathe ( member #40829) posted at 6:31 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

Ugh! I think I've met this creeper!

The trust of the innocent is the liar's most useful tool.
Stephen King
Me: BW
Him: WH
Married: 20 years
2 sons, 13 & 17
Raising my sons

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JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 6:41 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

WOW.

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StillGoing ( member #28571) posted at 7:40 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

I wonder if this guy will look back at what he wrote one day and consider carefully this phrase:

You were finishing college, looking for jobs, and beginning to become an adult.

Setting that aside now, and thankfully so given how vile a sentiment it is, this is the most laughable to me:

8. Don’t let society define what life should look like. Our relationships, marriage and lives don’t need to meet a particular stereotype to be a life filled with love, happiness and success.

It's convenient how the happiness of the woman you swore to honor in front of your gods and blood, and the happiness of your own children don't factor in there. BREAK THE MOLD, RIDE THE UNICORN

[This message edited by StillGoing at 1:40 PM, February 26th (Wednesday)]

Tempus Fuckit.

- Ricky

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Ascendant ( member #38303) posted at 3:19 AM on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014

BREAK THE MOLD, RIDE THE UNICORN

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4everfaithful83 ( member #41761) posted at 3:53 AM on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014

YUCK...that is all

Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...

ME: 36
1 doggie
DDay: June 24th, 2013
DDay 2 : August 22nd,2017

Left him August 26th, 2017

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forkinthehead ( member #42267) posted at 10:11 AM on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014

Well, one can only hope that his "third" appendage shrivels up and falls off. Delusional much?

Just when you think it's safe to go into the water. Life steps in and takes a big bite. Let me rephrase that to a HUGE bite out of ones ass.

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DragonBunker ( member #42551) posted at 10:20 AM on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014

Ugh. "I hope to be able to masturbate again without stopping because all I can see is your face and your body."

Well. Take your medicine, sunshine! You don't think you put your wife through a worse hell? You don't think you deserve to experience despair and loneliness? You do. You and your intern.

Never looking back with longing. Always looking forward with hope.

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solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 1:43 PM on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014

How ridiculous.

Like the "millennial" requires advice from a lying, cheating douchebag.

His ex-wife is lucky to be rid of him; he's an emotional midget.

BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams

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