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Ivyivy (original poster member #42110) posted at 5:46 PM on Friday, March 7th, 2014
So I am planning a vacation for April and am trying to decide what to do about WH. We are in limbo but still living together in the house with the kids. We did the vacation as a family in November (after Dday) and it was fine. But if anything, our interactions have been deteriorating since then. I am considering: (1)either just going away with the kids for a week; or (2) asking him if he wants to come (not sure what his response will be). Anyone have any advice or experience to share on how to handle this.
Me -BW
Him - WH
LTA
Dday 7/11/2013
DS - 12 and DD - 16
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 5:48 PM on Friday, March 7th, 2014
Do you want him to come? Or would you prefer he stayed home?
Ivyivy (original poster member #42110) posted at 6:40 PM on Friday, March 7th, 2014
I am not sure. There are pros and cons to both sides of this. I know that doesn't help. At this point I am kind of in a holding pattern in this and in everything else and will probably book a vacation last minute just so that I do not have to plan what I am going to do.
Me -BW
Him - WH
LTA
Dday 7/11/2013
DS - 12 and DD - 16
Undefinabl3 ( member #36883) posted at 6:44 PM on Friday, March 7th, 2014
Do you honestly think that your Vacation will be enhanced by his presence??
If you are not for him going, then i would suggest not taking him.
Me: 35 MH
Him: 41 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.
1/10/18 - Again?!? Online EA's
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