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MoonLitSmile ( member #24746) posted at 12:50 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Definitely tell his wife...believe me, I'm sure she would be interested to know- if I were her I would...
Me- 40
FWH- 40 recovering SA
Her- 45, a self-centered bitch in Naples, FL concerned with no one but herself forever known as Cumdumpster
DDay- July 13, 2013
Back off man- I'm a scientist!
~ Dr. Peter Venkman
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 10:57 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
F- fair dos. And it would undo a lot of my hard work I guess.
This sounds like he's already been busted by his wife before.
Definitely let her know this tiger has not changed his stripes.
[This message edited by GabyBaby at 4:58 PM, March 11th (Tuesday)]
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 11:22 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Can you tell her now so she can decide if she even wants to come home? I know I would take my time coming back if I had this information.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
painfulpast ( member #41038) posted at 11:24 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Well, you were very clear the last time. Is there any chance he's asking for another reason? From what you wrote here, you didn't use your relationship as a reason not to be 'an outlet' (that is just disgusting that this is how he refers to cheating - an outlet). If he knows there is no way with you and he, maybe he has another reason?
I doubt it, but you never know.
DDay - 12/2010
Fully R'd - I love my husband
TXMommy ( member #28857) posted at 2:07 AM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014
If this were my husband, I would want to know. Somehow, tell her. I would be done with my H if he were doing this.
ME - BS - 38
WH - 34
15 years...
2 kids: D13, S7
D-Day: June 10th, 2010
Sadmumma ( member #42192) posted at 2:17 AM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014
Screen shot it and message it to his wife.include your contact information that she can verify if needed. Delete and block him
On any given day you have the power to say "my story is not going to end like this"
Me 41 BS
Him 41 WH
6 kids...7 weeks, 5,7,9,11&13
D day jan 29th 2014
purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 5:30 AM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014
Sigh. What a douche. Send the convo to the wife, block him and wait.
Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???
william ( member #41986) posted at 9:43 AM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014
"you need to take a serious look at your boundaries and set them waaaaay back from where you've got them now."
gently ... but so do you. your boundaries arent very healthy.
why get into this conversation at all? as soon as he sent the meme ... block. why converse with someone who has just made it plain they want to have sex with you? healthy boundaries are to IMMEDIATELY STOP the conversation, block them, and tell your spouse.
instead you spent some time conversing with them. you got sucked in to their conversation. you had the best of intentions but still got sucked in.
why allow yourself to get sucked in?
me - bh
her - lara01
from 09/11 - 05/13
2 ONS, 10 sexting partners, 1 LT EA/PA
??/06/13 DD/1 - admits to LT EA, begin false R.
01/13/14 DD/2 - LTA was PA.
01/18/14 DD/3 - sexting 5 guys.
01/19/14 DD/4 - 2 ONS with different guys
DragonBunker (original poster member #42551) posted at 9:00 PM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014
I didn't answer and I think his wife may actually have left him!! Judging from the "so shocked to hear, hope you're ok" posts on his FB wall (public) and the response "I messed up I'm an idiot and I hope she can forgive me."
Maybe she checked his FB herself? Or maybe he's got an OW- or he's a bastard and she can't stand him. Either way, it looks like my one time friend might be sampling his just desserts!
Never looking back with longing. Always looking forward with hope.
BAB61 ( member #41181) posted at 5:32 PM on Thursday, March 13th, 2014
Definitely send your convo with him to his wife. She may have left him, back-up never hurts!
Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.
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