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GotPlayed (original poster member #41294) posted at 8:16 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
XBH and healing. D final March 2016
Her: Doesn't matter anymore.
DS13 Severe SN. DD11 Awesome
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 8:27 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
Sending mojo and luck your way, GP!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 8:30 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
Prayers and positive thoughts coming your way.
DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 8:31 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
good luck and Mojo brother.
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 9:11 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 9:56 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 10:37 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
Good luck. Let us know what happens!
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
grownapair ( member #33622) posted at 10:41 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
BS - me, 40 WH - 42
Kids 8 and 10
Definitely done!
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 10:48 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
Freeme ( member #31946) posted at 1:09 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Good luck!! Hope it goes well for you.
careerlady ( member #16958) posted at 1:47 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Been crossing my fingers for you today! Report back!
Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 1:49 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Good luck!! Will be thinking of you!
GotPlayed (original poster member #41294) posted at 6:22 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Hi everyone, so it went smoothly! I guess the prospect of a social worker asking about her FOO issues made her very reasonable. We decided on 50/50 custody and agreed. I was able to add language making it impossible for jailbird to be alone with my kids.
I took her to dinner afterwards (I hadn't talked to her since Jan, so I thought it was appropriate since she behaved so well). We talked a bit. She says she doesn't see OM but still texts with him. That she hates him but still took care of his dog because he asked her to.
She was very afraid I'd go after full custody and that I was going to blast her at the meeting or disagree wantonly. I told her that wasn't my intention, but the texts OM sent seemed to have the intent to make her lose the kids by forcing my hand to go for full custody (at leas that's how I interpreted them). I didn't give her any details but left it at that. She's a bit paranoid, since all she got was second and third hand information. I have been as consistent as I can myself, but she wasn't hearing any of it. She seems calmer now.
We talked about the kids, a bit on the plans for housing for both of us (I avoided specific on finances other than the regular bills), and her plans for a job (she is looking for one - yay!). Now the next part is the tough one - the separation of assets and supports..
But at least the custody is done, and there was no major disagreements. We signed and we're on to the next one!
Thank you for your prayers and thoughts everyone!
Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
XBH and healing. D final March 2016
Her: Doesn't matter anymore.
DS13 Severe SN. DD11 Awesome
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 6:49 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Thank you for stepping by and giving us an update! I'm sure you are emotionally exhausted. I'm so happy things went well for you!
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