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simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 2:00 PM on Thursday, March 13th, 2014
Sending (((Hugs))) and prayers that everything is all right.
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 3:43 PM on Thursday, March 13th, 2014
Sending prayers and mojo.
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
HFSSC (original poster member #33338) posted at 6:22 PM on Thursday, March 13th, 2014
Thank you all for the prayers and reassurance. Our primary doc is out of the office till Monday and neither of her partners considers this any sort of emergency. So he'll see our doc early next week. I'm not thrilled but what I do know is that he had completely normal bloodwork (CBC and CMP) in November, and has no other symptoms. So I am going to take a DEEP breath and just stay calm. 
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 8:05 PM on Thursday, March 13th, 2014
Sending what mojo I have. (((HF & JM)))
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 8:22 PM on Thursday, March 13th, 2014
Sending mojo, take some deep breaths and hang in there until Monday.
((((JM & HF))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
gypsybird87 ( member #39193) posted at 8:28 PM on Thursday, March 13th, 2014
((HF & JM))
Sounds like lipoma. A previous SO of mine had a lump exactly as you describe, exactly where you describe, and that's what it was. Totally harmless.
I do radiology billing for a living and I can't tell you how many studies cross my desk with a symptom of "mass, lump" etc. Most of the time, the findings are nothing serious at all.
Breathe. Soak in the SI mojo and good vibes. And do keep us posted.
Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem
Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords
boontje ( member #33247) posted at 1:12 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
Just saw this HF. I'm so sorry you have to wait until next week to have this checked out. I know it's easier said than done, try to not worry too much. In the meantime hugs and prayers to you both.
[This message edited by boontje at 7:13 PM, March 13th (Thursday)]
Me: BS
Dday: June 2011
Courage is not having the strength to go on; it is going on when you don't have the strength.
--Theodore Roosevelt
sadtoo ( member #2027) posted at 4:38 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
HFSSC,
Sending prayers.
FYI,
I was rubbing on my H's chest one night and felt a lump. Near the center, but a little to the right. it was definately in the chest tissue. it was hard, but not bone, and wouldn't move. It wasn't a zit or a cyst. (I'm a pro at those. 
) He called the Dr and went in. They did a biopsy. We had to wait for those results. Then when they came back, they said, "We're not sure what it is, but it needs to come out." So he went in about a week later and they cut this thing out. It was round on the top, but had "fingers" or legs that branched down deeper into his tissues. It was really gross! Then they tested that and it came back as some benign growth.
We were really stressed out and worried the whole time and it turned out to be nothing. Hopefully Jm's is nothing too.
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 4:57 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
(((HF and JM)))
Sending lots of mojo your way.
itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 7:53 PM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
Sending much mojo and prayers and stay calm vibes until JM's appt.
I'm glad you're both being vigilant.
JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 8:14 PM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
((HUGS)) and good vibes to you both.
Faithful w/Love ( member #33128) posted at 8:27 PM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 11:17 PM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
Sorry you have to wait so long.
Sending prayers that it's nothing.
Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 9:20 PM on Monday, March 17th, 2014
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 9:27 PM on Monday, March 17th, 2014
Just saw this - sending positive thoughts your way HF and JM.
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
HFSSC (original poster member #33338) posted at 11:29 PM on Monday, March 17th, 2014
The soonest appointment we could get is next Monday. I adore our doc and staff, and I am really okay about this. My dad (also a nurse) looked at it and palpated it and thinks lipoma also. So I am waiting, patiently, but will still feel better after it's "officially" examined.
Thanks so much, y'all. This community means SO much to me.
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 3:26 AM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014
I thought of this today, so thank you for the update! I am glad you feel ok/better and are ok with waiting. Continued prayers and support winging your way.
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 1:14 PM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014
Thinkng of you guys!!!!
I had something similar years ago. It turned out to be a gland. I didn't even know I had glands there (dr replied....oh yes....they are all over). Seemed like it got big out of no where (one day nothing, next shower it was there).
I was scared to death too.
solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 2:46 PM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014
Millions of hugs and prayers. (((HFSSC)))
BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 2:48 PM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014
Healing and loving thoughts to you both.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
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