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 PurpleRose (original poster member #33129) posted at 4:25 AM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

Am I supposed to give a shit?

I got an email today from the doosh... He apparently still watches CBS Sunday Morning. I always did, and was able to get him hooked on watching with me back when things were good.

He sent me a video clip about children of veterans who now suffer from mental illness or something. Asked me to "please consider watching it" because he thought of me when he saw it.

He is for real? He is still trying to prove that I am the mentally unstable one! Gah.. What a joke!

I guess he was trying to say I am mental because my dad is a Vietnam vet? From before I was even born?

My instability couldn't possibly be due to his lying, whoring, cheating self eh? Besides, I was actually told by my IC that I have done remarkably well for someone living my life. I don't even see IC anymore, don't need any meds, etc...

The only part of his email that was worth reading was the first line:

I know I am the last person on earth you want to hear from but...

Yeah. Lie in a hole and rot, please. Thanks!

[This message edited by PurpleRose at 10:26 PM, March 16th (Sunday)]

divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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SBB ( member #35229) posted at 4:35 AM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

My instability couldn't possibly be due to his lying, whoring, cheating self eh?

Why of course not. Its always someone else's fault, remember! Just unbelievable. I'm not surprised but I still find it remarkable.

Yeah. Lie in a hole and rot, please. Thanks!

Too true. Be invisible works for me too.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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persevere ( member #31468) posted at 4:38 AM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

I'm sorry PR, but as soon as I read your post all I could do was - AYFKM? He really is an idiot...lol.

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dmari ( member #37215) posted at 5:31 AM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

Oh sheesh. This is his sly (well, not really) way of nudging back into your zone because if he can convince himself and others that everything is honky dory between the two of you, well then, what he did wasn't thaaaat bad.

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 PurpleRose (original poster member #33129) posted at 5:38 AM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

^winner! Dmari you are right... A friend told,me he had some dumb quote pic on his Facebook page about "just because I cut you out of my life doesn't mean I hate you it just meant that I chose me..."

Or some crap.

We had a good chuckle over the thinly veiled attempt to look like the good guy once again. (Friend assured me that no one is buying what he is selling)

What a moron.

divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 6:27 AM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

Awwww, how very sweet!!

Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 7:07 AM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

Buuut, if you're crazy because of XYZ, then maybe he is too! No personal responsibility! Woo hoo! The ______ made me do it!

Sorry you had to read that from him, but be glad you're far enough out that you don't take it personal and can see him for the manipulating douchbag assface he is.

And way to take a stab at our soldiers and veterans. Stand up guy he is. Fuckhead..

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stronger08 ( member #16953) posted at 11:04 AM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

dmari is absolutely right !!!! From my experience I think most WS' are some of the best spin doctors out there. What it boils down to is just another delusional asshole holding a rock and calling it a diamond. But in the end its just a rock.

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sparkysable ( member #3703) posted at 11:17 AM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

Yes, clearly all of your problems stem from the fact that you father was in Vietnam.

What an asshole he is.

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Pass ( member #38122) posted at 2:11 PM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

What an arsehole!

There was a time when this would have caused a fresh batch of hurt for you. Now it's just an annoyance. Think of how far you've come!

Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.

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Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 4:15 PM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

I'm sure you sent crickets in reply, but it would be awfully tempting to say, "You're right. You are the last person on earth I want to hear from." What a doosh, oh right, that's his name.

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 PurpleRose (original poster member #33129) posted at 11:06 PM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

Gemini, bingo! I shared the crap with my friend and he asked what I said in reply. I told him "chirp chirp".

But we both laughed when I told him I would like to say exactly what you came up with!

I have a restraining order... Doesn't the Dooosh know I do NOT want to hear his blame shifting bullshit? It really is laughable!

divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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