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 Gemini71 (original poster member #40115) posted at 9:22 PM on Thursday, March 27th, 2014

I have decided to start graduate school and get my masters in accounting, and CPA. I'll start off part-time taking classes on-line.

I always wanted to continue my education, but the need to earn a living, letting STBXH get his Bachelor's, being a SAHM and a lack of support put the whole thing on hold.

I don't care if I am in my 40s, and it's late to be starting a career. I want to do this for me.

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Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 9:27 PM on Thursday, March 27th, 2014

Oh yes! Please do this if you want/need to do it. Believe me, being in your 40s is very young. I wish I had followed my dreams back then instead of deciding I was "too old"

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

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norabird ( member #42092) posted at 9:32 PM on Thursday, March 27th, 2014

Sounds like a great big awesome step to me!

Sit. Feast on your life.

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Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 9:40 PM on Thursday, March 27th, 2014

Awesome.

I love the accounting profession. It's what God meant for me to do in life - I hope you feel the same.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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seekingright2013 ( member #37991) posted at 4:43 PM on Friday, March 28th, 2014

You go, Gemini71. Sounds like an awesome plan.

I went back to graduate school at the age of almost 43 and graduated at age 45 with my MLIS. I've been in my second career for 9 years now (I'm almost 54 now) and I am SO SO SO glad I went back & got the graduate degree. It is absolutely the best thing I ever did for myself, and has paid off time and time and time again.

Congratulations and keep us updated !!


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― Walt Whitman, Song of Myself

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sparkysable ( member #3703) posted at 4:46 PM on Friday, March 28th, 2014

Good for you!

You should get some pretty good financial aid also I would imagine.

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 Gemini71 (original poster member #40115) posted at 2:24 AM on Saturday, March 29th, 2014

Because we filed joint this year, I have to include his income on my FAFSA, but I can get Gov't Loans.

It also occurred to me, that I worked while he finished his Bachelor's Degree and paid off a lot of his student loans. Maybe I can ask for him to return the favor and pay half my tuition? Even if it doesn't make difference, I can still do it the old fashioned way.

[This message edited by Gemini71 at 8:24 PM, March 28th (Friday)]

DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

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