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better4me (original poster member #30341) posted at 3:31 PM on Saturday, March 29th, 2014
When discussing what we were "doing" regarding dating each other at this stage in our lives, these were the words in a text from my new beau: "We'll figure it out". He has no idea how comforting and reassuring and soul touching those words are for me. I don't think I realized how reassuring and comforting they were until the tears came into my eyes when reading them last night.
Better4me is just going to go with the flow and "be" with this. With everything. Ahhhhhhh
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
cmego ( member #30346) posted at 4:58 PM on Saturday, March 29th, 2014
Can I give this a hundred "likes"???
Makes me happy. 
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 9:35 PM on Saturday, March 29th, 2014
gypsybird87 ( member #39193) posted at 11:34 PM on Sunday, March 30th, 2014
Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem
Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords
inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 1:04 AM on Monday, March 31st, 2014
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
momofthree2007 ( member #14766) posted at 1:12 AM on Monday, March 31st, 2014
It's amazing what does little words can do. When I came to the realization that my marriage was pretty much over after my XWH's DDays, I met an amazing man who I opened up to about my situation. I told him how I wanted a divorce but didn't know how my kids could handle it. He told me "you'll figure it out and when your kids are older, they'll understand." Those little words, "you'll figure out" gave me the motivation to go through with the divorce. I fell in love with him. Even though we're not together, we're still friends and he has a special place in my heart. I don't know what the future may bring for us, but thanks to those little words, I had the courage to leave my drama filled emotionally abusive marriage and try to raise my kids on my own.
H - XWH RSA
D-Day 1, OW1: 3/20/07
D-Day 2. OW2: 6/24/07
Divorced, 08/23/2012
Married 7 years, together 9
One day fling each; online As turned physical
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