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Abbondad (original poster member #37898) posted at 10:23 AM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Good morning, New Beginnings Friends!
I am SO glad I can finally join you :-)
Whew!!!
Divorced April Fool's Day 2014
Fear is the mind-killer.Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.I will face my fear.I will permit it to pass over me and through me.-Dune
seekingright2013 ( member #37991) posted at 10:27 AM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Welcome, Abbondad! Lots of encouragement and wisdom here, glad you made it!
“I tramp a perpetual journey.”
― Walt Whitman, Song of Myself
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 12:12 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 12:20 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Have I mentioned how much I love it that your divorce was finalised on April Fools Day? I love it. Wish it was 2013 alas 2014 is better than 2015.
Welcome, friend. We're a nice bunch here. Mind the threads about pubic hair stylings and BOBs - you strike me as a raging blusher.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 2:07 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Welcome! 
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 2:15 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Welcome AD 
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 2:17 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Welcome!
And welcome to the new life of Abbondad. You'll be fine.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 2:47 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Welcome!!! I'm looking forward to hearing about your adventures as a divorced dad.
Failure is success if we learn from it.
getnbtr1 ( member #40540) posted at 2:52 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 2:54 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 3:05 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:07 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Welcome to NB, AD!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 3:46 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Hi AD
welcome to the next phase
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Undefinabl3 ( member #36883) posted at 5:56 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
So glad you are here!!! Let the NB's begin!
Me: 35 MH
Him: 41 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.
1/10/18 - Again?!? Online EA's
k94ever ( member #11176) posted at 7:31 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
If a thread here says TMI it really means TMI. Open at your own risk.
And welcome. We are fun, but not crazy
k9
BS:61
WS: 53
Betrayed: 24 years
Affairs: 15 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.
emmybear ( new member #42934) posted at 7:35 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Congrats! Here's to new beginnings
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 9:16 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Welcome AD!
You will like this forum, it is a place of continued healing and closure, and a fresh look at moving on into your own new future.
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
ProbableIceCream ( member #37468) posted at 2:01 AM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
I just had this hilarious picture of you going through the plot of Escape by Rupert Holmes, except it's your XWW who shows up at O'Malley's and there's a record scratch and the song stops.
Sorry, I have a twisted imagination. Good luck with your new life!
RavenWood ( member #39847) posted at 3:12 AM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
BS: Me (30s)
Status: Divorced Jan 2014.
DDay: May 2013
million pieces ( member #27539) posted at 3:30 AM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
Me - 52 D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later, Divorced 11/15/11!!!!
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