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cayc (original poster member #21964) posted at 4:26 PM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
Periodically people comment about not being ready to date and how they think they aren't ready and that they wouldn't date themselves so for the record and apologies for my momentary lack of humility but I would date me!!!!!!! I think I'm pretty awesome. I'm a good and loyal friend. I'm in great shape, well educated with a good job, lots of hobbies, intellectually curious and I don't need to be handheld through life or emotionally propped up by someone else. Now if I could just find a guy who's the same .... 
wonderingbull ( member #14833) posted at 4:32 PM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
Where's that fricken LIKE button when you need it?
WB
The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...
James Taylor
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:38 PM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
I couldn't love this more, cayc. YAY!!! 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 4:49 PM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
cayc you're a rare find. it will take a rare man to deserve you.
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
libertyrocks ( member #38924) posted at 5:22 PM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
Awesome! Ditto. Hey, wanna date me bc I'm awesome, too!! lol. Girl date. JK. Good for you!!! So glad you're at a place where you can say this. I know a year and a half ago, I was a trainwreck. lol. Dang, it's so good to be over them.
Me-37 Ws-37
2 kids
Dday Nov 2012, TT for a year.
Reconciling for the third time in 4 years.
asurvivor ( member #32368) posted at 6:13 PM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
Good on you!!! Love to see positives posts.
I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know.
Must Survive ( member #34533) posted at 6:16 PM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorced-Let my new beginning start
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen
ProbableIceCream ( member #37468) posted at 7:58 PM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
Faithful w/Love ( member #33128) posted at 10:05 PM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
HEll yeah Cayc. I feel the same damn way. I just never say anything because I don't want to look conceded. But, I am glad I am not the only one that feels this way.
Hell, I am beautiful, pretty fit, I tell truth, You can look at anything of mine because I don't hide anything. I love to cook and I love to cook with the mans help. I love who I am, I love my big heart and that I don't take shit anymore from NO ONE, I have a good job, I am loyal, I don't talk or try to judge anyone. I am independent, I like a challenge (working on things in house, car, ect), And I love to have fun... I love to laugh
BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 1:25 AM on Saturday, April 5th, 2014
I'd date you too. I mean that in an uncreepy way... 
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
cmego ( member #30346) posted at 1:51 AM on Saturday, April 5th, 2014
I"m with Ama, in a totally uncreepy way too
Wait….does that emoticon make it creepy?
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 1:55 AM on Saturday, April 5th, 2014
Not as creepy as 
would have. 
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 3:16 PM on Saturday, April 5th, 2014
I agree with AMA, but I have to add: if you find that guy, make sure he has a brother for me!
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 4:38 PM on Saturday, April 5th, 2014
if you find that guy, make sure he has a brother for me!
And a younger brother for me....how fun would it be to be sister-in-laws with you lovely ladies. You'd be the best in laws ever.
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 5:20 PM on Saturday, April 5th, 2014
Love this. I have a window decal that a friend gave me that says that very thing. Haven't had the courage to put it on my car! But, heck it might be a good way to meet people
Just heard this encouragement the other night from a dating coach regarding finding someone terrific: "If you exist, he exists"
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
GotPlayed ( member #41294) posted at 2:59 AM on Sunday, April 6th, 2014
Late to this party. But just wanted to say:
Cayc, you rock!
Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
XBH and healing. D final March 2016
Her: Doesn't matter anymore.
DS13 Severe SN. DD11 Awesome
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 7:51 AM on Sunday, April 6th, 2014
Pfffft, please! I WISH I could find the male me! I would date him/me so fast. I'd marry him. And I'm NEVER getting married again!
I'm not conceited either. But hell, if my husband had had half the integrity and honor (well then he never would have cheated right) that I have, I could live with that half forever.
If he were as generous, fiercely protective and loyal, yep, that would be a real catch!
You rock cayc! Don't let his brokenness allow you to forget it either!
edited for misspelling
[This message edited by StillLivin at 1:52 AM, April 6th (Sunday)]
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
NaiveAgain ( member #20849) posted at 2:45 PM on Sunday, April 6th, 2014
Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.
ChinaCat ( member #42797) posted at 9:54 PM on Sunday, April 6th, 2014
Love the topic! I would date me too :)
"Every time I stay out late; every time I sleep in; every time I miss a workout; every time I don't give 100% - I make it that much easier for him to beat me!"
Me: BS & Beautiful!
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