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 tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 10:58 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

Supposed to have court next Tuesday...so looking forward to it...

But in the mail today was a notice from my lawyer that the court has rescheduled the hearing for May 2nd.

Sigh.

So fucktard has another week and a half to show what a useless deadbeat he is. I just scheduled my day off for next Tuesday...grrrr. Oh well, get that straightened out tomorrow.

I was really hoping that the letter contained a check from ex-shat. That would have been so nice.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 11:04 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

I'm sure he will do just that...

Hang in there. I hate waiting, too..

divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...

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devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 11:32 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

Doh. I was hoping this was going to end for you too, and he was about to get it handed to him. At least it's only a week and a half.

What happened with the horse back riding lessons? Has Teslet gone yet?

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

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 tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 11:44 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

No, never did take him to the lesson. Never offered an explanation or an apology for not showing up (the lesson was an hour drive for me...but I'm sure that fact is the last thing on his mind).

He is in a world of hurt. He has been borrowing money from his brother to pay his bills the last 2 months. He had to borrow money to catch up his union dues so he could be eligible to be called by companies as a contractor. Had to borrow money to get a replacement phone and have the service turned back on. He'll have to work away from the area. No more paid days off. No more excellent benefits. This guy used to make sooooooo much money. He has NOTHING to show for it. Well, except for an idiot stripper whore that drives him up the fucking wall and follows him around like a lap dog. Oh, he has some snakes, a ferret, a rat, a tarantula, a rabbit, and three dogs. Maybe that's something.

He also has a bill from me to the tune of 10 grand and climbing.

Guess it's the screwing he gets for the screwing he got.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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SBB ( member #35229) posted at 11:51 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 2:48 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

Love it!

Guess it's the screwing he gets for the screwing he got.

DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

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SBB ( member #35229) posted at 4:04 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

Guess it's the screwing he gets for the screwing he got.

Not so worth it for him now, hey? So worth it for you though.

He's still like the deer who thinks hiding his head behind a free means he can't be seen.

Beep beep!

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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BAB61 ( member #41181) posted at 5:49 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

I'm sorry Teslet didn't get to take his lesson.... another black mark against the exshat.... Sending major mojo for your court date ....

Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

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IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 6:22 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

I am so frustrated for you. How many chances does the court system allow him to prove that he's an idiot? Do they think that this is just a one off for him? Like, other that being a decent person, paying child support and his debt to his ex wife, he's this close to being sainted? And why, oh why, is this the one of the TEN COMMANDMENTS that does not have LAW ascribed to it? You can't murder, thieve or bear false witness but you can fuck Holly go lightly, ruin the lives of so many people who love you and then take your sweet ass time following court orders to pay child support? Damn, I'm in a mood now too

Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

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ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 5:20 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

WHAT A FUCKING ASSHOLE!!!!!

But you knew that already, didn't you

That's ok, you get an extra day to yourself, maybe an opportunity in two weeks to see if stripperwhore has figured out how to work the little door things to get up to the table.....

On top of that, you get to be SUPERMUM TESLA and he is STILL a fucktard asshole who doesn't know his ass from a horse riding lesson.

((((tesla)))) ((((teslet))))

Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 9:13 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

Well it does sound like he has an excellent Red Neck Pet store starter kit. Perhaps he could start selling useless expensive stinky pets.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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