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hobbeskat ( member #38805) posted at 1:53 AM on Tuesday, April 22nd, 2014
Mine does too, mostly because of me needing to post on it reminds him of what he did. He can shove it up his hole, I'll read and post as much as I want to.
TICKED OFF ( member #8291) posted at 2:28 AM on Tuesday, April 22nd, 2014
My h to this very day (10 years past now) HATES this site.
H says that this site is useless and that everyone on here is nuts and has nothing better to do with their life other than to remain miserable while listening to all the other losers My answer is always the same……I would not be on this site if it had not been for his a with our neighbor. It seems to shut him up if just for a little while. H only hates this site for one reason……that is because he would rather it all just go away than to come face to face with it and tell the honest truth for once.
I used to hide the fact that I would be here with SI, now I could care less if he sees me on it or not.
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Flourgirl ( member #40937) posted at 6:46 AM on Tuesday, April 22nd, 2014
Add my WH to the haters club. He thinks I pain shop here. Really because I see a reflection of my pain in others. The pain he caused. Nope I have gotten some really great advice here. I have also caught him in lies because of what I read here. I'm sure he is afraid of me being stronger. I take breaks but I will never stop coming. You all are like air to me. I need to see I'm not crazy.
BS me 39
WH him 40
Dd 7/1/13. TT 7/22/13
SAHM with 4 wonderful kids
cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 11:27 AM on Tuesday, April 22nd, 2014
My stbxwh also hated this site and any reading that I did.
He would tell me that I was filling my head with garbage and couldn't see what was really happening in real life.
He actually was right in a bizarre way, he was cheating again and I didn't see it!
I would not have survived this without SI, I have received more support and compassion from the wonderful people here than I ever did from him. It helped keep me sane.
Do what you need to do for yourself, to keep you sane, to help you heal.
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie
TICKED OFF ( member #8291) posted at 11:15 PM on Tuesday, April 22nd, 2014
"cantaccept"…..EXACTLY what my h says over and over again. That this site does me no good because it fills my head with garbage from a bunch of losers who make it impossible for us to move on in our marriage.
EXCUSE ME…….what made this marriage a joke was when he decided to unzip his pants for our friend/neighbor/his best friend's wife. Then add to it that the little whore and her h still live 2 houses down 10 years later. THAT MY DEAR H is what makes it impossible for us to have the marriage we could have had. Throw in all the lies and stories I have had to hear over the years instead of the honest truth, and there you go. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ME BEING ON THIS SITE. Me being on this site just makes him have to smell the stench that he cooked up.
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