TN, I spewed when I read your post from laughing so hard! Maybe I should put a helmet in each of my gardens. I think I am going to sit back and enjoy it. Let's just see what he can do, lol!
Huh? where did he take you to go shopping?
We went to a stupid mall department store. I wanted to buy flip flops and summer clothes for our daughter and he wanted me to look at jewelry. While we were looking at earrings (and our daughter was commanding our cart), this floozy did this while her skank buddy recorded it on her phone. It was pretty clear that they were not just high on life. They did not look like people who could afford anything at that store.
The restaurant we went to is a higher end restaurant in our area that we went to a long time ago with our neighbors and friends. To me, it was a "safe place." WH made all the plans but I had the final say. Neither he or I knew they had changed so much. I will commend WH for shutting down an overt advance by the "hostess." I use that term loosely even though I have known her all her life.
Despite that and the camel toe and cellulite show walking in the door, WH was attentive and totally devoted to me and our daughter. WH held me all night as I cried. No pressure for sex. No wanting something more. He just held me and kept telling me how sorry he was. Hoover is broken though. Still got coffee and breakfast in bed along with him busting his butt in my gardens all day.
Mhiimg65, I hope your birthday brings you love and happiness. After so many years of dismissing myself, I realize that birthdays are really important. My IC broke this through to me by pointing out that I would never forget to celebrate my children's birthdays because they are totally and completely important to me. If WH wants me, then he has to prove that I am totally and completely important to him.
