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Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 3:28 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
Wonderful news. Congrats!
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
traicionada ( member #10310) posted at 4:02 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 4:27 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
InnerLight ( member #19946) posted at 5:23 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
Fabulous! Congrats! Squeeeeeeeeee!
BS, 64 yearsD-day 6-2-08D after 20 years together
The journey from Armageddon to Amazing Life happens one step at a time. Don't ever give up!
MyVoice ( member #35695) posted at 5:40 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 6:24 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 6:39 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
Snap! Never saw THAT coming! 
Congrats! All the best to you both. 
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Bluebird26 ( member #36445) posted at 10:26 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
Me: BW
Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.
Life's good.
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 11:33 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
Worst kept secret EVAR!
Congrats!
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 3:43 PM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
Congratulations!!! That is so very squeeeable! 
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
Crescita ( member #32616) posted at 4:38 PM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
inconnu (original poster member #24518) posted at 5:58 PM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
Worst kept secret EVAR!
Don'tcha mean the 2nd worst?
Thanks y'all for squeeing with us. It really means a lot that we can share our excitement with all our friends.
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
BelleStar ( member #13515) posted at 7:25 PM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
Where's that damned LIKE A WHOLE LOT button when you need it!
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 7:59 PM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
yay!!!! So happy for you!
Is there gonna be enough room in the closet for his stuff??
Failure is success if we learn from it.
Exit Wounds ( member #32811) posted at 8:04 PM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
Exit WoundsH of 17 years got gf pregnant, left our kids 9 & 11 and we never saw him again. -His choice.
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 8:08 PM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
Happy for you guys!
From an old old tune from Northumbria,
'The Peacock Follows the Hen'
All the neet ower and ower,
And all the neet ower again:
All the neet ower and ower,
The peacock follows the hen.
MadeOfScars ( member #42231) posted at 8:47 PM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
I refuse to "squee," , but I am very happy for you nonetheless!!
"Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t." - Steve Maraboli
thyme2go ( member #12908) posted at 9:15 PM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
BH - no longer 50
3 DD's - (32, 28 and 21)
Divorced on 8/6/09
NaiveAgain ( member #20849) posted at 9:24 PM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.
cryingdaily ( member #7276) posted at 9:48 PM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
OMG!!! YAY!!!
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