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Ashland13 (original poster member #38378) posted at 11:51 PM on Monday, May 26th, 2014
Begins tomorrow.
The house closed last week.
New apartment for five months.
Baby is eight months old.
Time keeps moving on, whether I am ready or not.
Here we go.
Door #2. What is the next chapter?
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 11:57 PM on Monday, May 26th, 2014
Healing and loving yourself!
Regaining who you were is a great way to head down this road.
Good luck in court, sending the MOJO to you!
(((Ashland13)))
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 12:24 AM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014
Next chapter is whatever you want it to be. 
You can do it Ash! I'll be thinking of you!!!!
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
HoldFast ( new member #43322) posted at 12:30 AM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014
Sending you court mojo. Be strong. You are strong. You've got this, and we've got your back.
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 2:32 AM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014
I love your attitude. It is door #2 and I bet it will be fantastic.
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 3:07 AM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014
Sending you all my positive thoughts tomorrow!! I'm so proud of how far you have come!! And your next chapter is going to be off the charts AMAZING!! Go for it!
Vulcanized ( member #33523) posted at 3:17 AM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014
GL, tomorrow.
Make sure you look like a million bucks.
Next chapter: you are free of a JAMF (jive ass m-f'er).
Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long
Now:-----> Everything is as it should be
Elaine2012 ( member #36099) posted at 3:28 AM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014
Sending mojo! Just trust that eventually it will be over.
Me- 60 ish
WH-no longer relevant
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 3 SIL, 6 grandchildren
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 5:13 AM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014
Sending you mojo, Ashland!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Rainbows ( member #39362) posted at 7:41 AM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014
You've got this!
Sending you light.
(((Ashland)))
There is always a rainbow after every storm.
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 11:08 AM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014
Good luck today Ash. Thinking of you.
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 12:24 PM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014
Sending strength, light to expose the truth to the court, and prayers for the judgement to be In yours and the best interests of the children.
SI will be with you in spirit. When you get into court sit, close your eyes and take a deep breath feel us surrounding you, supporting you.
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Ashland13 (original poster member #38378) posted at 2:41 PM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014
Thank you, everybody.
I think the most I will hear is:
"She is a liar, she is confused, she doesn't know what she is saying." He is saying that in the business world where I live to discredit me and to anyone who still knows both of us. Bah.
I put a washcloth in my bag to symbolize wiping off the mud he will sling.
I will be interested to see if we have to call witnesses and what they will do and say. But there is lots of evidence that he and Ow left behind like a trail in the woods.
I heard a story this weekend of a man who divorced his wife in secret, while still in the house. He forged the papers and then after he had made his exit plan, he mailed them to her, all the while she lived on as usual. Amazing.
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 8:24 PM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014
Hope it's all gone well Ash. Sorry, got busy last night, and officiating tonight...I'll PM you tomorrow when I'm home again!
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 9:48 PM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014
Sending you strength for court.
Mojo! Mojo!! Mojo!!!
Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23
rainagain ( member #14917) posted at 1:42 AM on Wednesday, May 28th, 2014
Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:11 done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love- Marino Me: Divorced
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