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deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 2:37 AM on Sunday, July 13th, 2014
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
FixYou71 ( member #42654) posted at 3:06 AM on Sunday, July 13th, 2014
PTL! Congrats Blakesteele!
BS:44
H: 50
Dday #1 Oct 2007 (Porn for 2 yrs)
Dday #2 May 2013 (Porn for 5 more yrs))
Dday#3 May 2014 (finally admitted to drunk kissing OW in 1994: the 2nd drunken kiss with another woman during our M)
DD 22 and DS 18
Married 1993
Neverwudaguessed ( member #41884) posted at 4:13 AM on Sunday, July 13th, 2014
Wow! What an especially sweet victory when you consider all that you had dealt with up to that day, hours prior to the interview and since. Your strength and courage give us all hope and warms my heart. CONGRATULATIONS!! well deserved.
BW: 46 Me
WH:50
DDay1 9-9-13 (18th Wedding Anniversary) 6 wk EA, 1 wk PA
DDay2: 10-25-13 EA/PA with same OW 14 1/2 years ago for 2 or 3 months
OW: XGF Predator who never stopped pursuing WH
DS 15
DD 13
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 5:54 AM on Sunday, July 13th, 2014
Awesome! 
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
healingroad ( member #41920) posted at 6:06 AM on Sunday, July 13th, 2014
Oh wow, I know this was a big one for you. Congrats!!
ItsaClimb ( member #37107) posted at 10:12 AM on Sunday, July 13th, 2014
Congratulations blake, SO thrilled for you!
BS 52
Together 35 yrs, M 31 years
2 daughters 30yo(married with 2 children) & 25yo
D-Day 18 Aug 2012
6mth EA lead to 4mth PA with CO-W. I found out 8 1/2 yrs later
catlover50 ( member #37154) posted at 10:44 AM on Sunday, July 13th, 2014
That's wonderful; good for you!!
Dday -9/23/2012
Reconciled
blakesteele (original poster member #38044) posted at 1:00 PM on Sunday, July 13th, 2014
Thanks for chiming in!!!!!
It does feel good.
Peace.
ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not yet incurred.
brokensmile322 ( member #35758) posted at 2:26 PM on Sunday, July 13th, 2014
Great job, Blakesteele! You should be proud. Nothing shows how much you have grown than persevering through this interview AND landing the job just minutes after finding out about dday 3.
Celebrate you! You deserve it! 
Me BS 42 Him WS 44
OW Coworker DDay April 7, 2012
EA on a slippery slope...
When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. ~Viktor Frankl
"When you are happy, you can forgive a great deal."
SadFlower ( member #37725) posted at 3:25 PM on Sunday, July 13th, 2014
I am so happy for you, Blakesteele. Congratulations!
Me: BW, age 71
Him: WH, age 70
Married 24 years
In R.
D-Day: August 14, 2012
9 year LTA with former co-worker and family "friend"/7 years EA+PA, 2 more years EA
spond ( member #41686) posted at 8:45 PM on Sunday, July 13th, 2014
Awesome job Blake!!! Like there was really a doubt in mgmt's minds!!
BH(me) | fWW
2 Kids - Married 2002
D-Day TT & EA | D-Day #2 PA
Reconciling
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