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sparkysable ( member #3703) posted at 5:01 PM on Tuesday, October 27th, 2015
You did the right thing.
I don't think you need to worry about her coming after you. Especially if you sent her undeniable proof, and you had no idea about her, and when you found out, you told her. She might be upset, but she'll be glad at the same time.
I once informed someone that their WH was having an affair. The WS was on a mission to find out who told. I was anxious and sick about it, so I can relate to how you feel.
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.
staystrong101 ( member #41068) posted at 8:02 PM on Tuesday, October 27th, 2015
Please tell her. Now. Today. Not anonymously. Tell her who you are and that you didn't know he was in a relationship with her. Please don't put her through the anonymous thing, with wondering who told her and if it's true. And wondering who might be talking about her and who knows, etc. Please do the only kind, right thing. Please let this woman know. She has a right to know. What she does with that info is up to her. I wish someone had told me.
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